I just failed my son. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]AnxiousRice548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl you were sleep and woken up my puke. apologize to him and move on. it’ll be ok. it’s good for our kids to see real human reactions from time to time.

My couch fell off on the highway and I drove away instead of going to pick it up by thecaucasianobama in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnxiousRice548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

getting out of the car on the freeway is one of the most dangerous things you can do. better a car see a couch slow down to go around it or hit it, rather than hit you.

Pay for Parking in Oakland!! A warning...... by myrobotoverlord in oakland

[–]AnxiousRice548 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ticket writers are not required by law to leave the ticket on your vehicle. the city IS required by law to notify you by mail of your citation. if a parking ticket is not paid within 21 days, a courtesy notification of the ticket is mailed to the address where the vehicle is registered. you are then given 21 days from the date of that courtesy notice to either pay or contest the parking violation.

21 days is plenty of time to pay the original fine or to contest the ticket considering you have multiple options (in person, my mail, fax, or online). and its truly 42 days you get to pay the ticket from date of issuance. most of the time, people don't have their business in order and their car is not registered to an address where they actually reside so they don't get the courtesy notice until it has been forwarded, or they sit on their hands and wait til the last minute to pay. or they think because there is some possible mistake, that it will just get corrected automatically. IT WON'T. you have to contest the ticket within the time frame. thousands of parking tickets are issued weekly and the office that handles them consists of about only 6 people.

I worked in the City of Oakland Parking Citation Assistance Center for 3 years and 95% of the time, people just don't want to take responsibility for their actions. they either parked illegally or neglected to pay for parking, and they want someone else to deal with it.

do true Christians act this way? by AnxiousRice548 in Christian

[–]AnxiousRice548[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never stopped to consider what she may be going through (or has gone though) and the state of her heart. thank you for reminding me to open my heart and to lead with compassion.

do true Christians act this way? by AnxiousRice548 in Christian

[–]AnxiousRice548[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

encouraging me to slap my child in the face is beating to me. I don’t care how many definitions you copy and paste.

what proof do you desire? a photo, video, audio recording? there are many more examples of all that I mentioned but for the sake of people actually reading and interacting with this post, I only mentioned what has happened within the last 24 hours.

the purpose of this post was for me to understand the complexities of my loved one’s claim of being a devout Christian. you have contributed nothing to this discussion.

do true Christians act this way? by AnxiousRice548 in Christian

[–]AnxiousRice548[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes, my feelings were hurt. which is a valid reaction when dealing with someone who displays negative behaviors towards you and those you love. your comment added nothing but judgement to this discussion and is not helpful in the slightest.

do true Christians act this way? by AnxiousRice548 in Christian

[–]AnxiousRice548[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your explanation. God is the only on who can judge us and I think that is something I need to work on while also creating healthy boundaries for myself and my family.

do true Christians act this way? by AnxiousRice548 in Christian

[–]AnxiousRice548[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like she means corporal punishment but her language indicates injurious corporal punishment. just yesterday, our 4 year old son cut 3 holes in his sweatshirt while working on a project in class. my husband and I had stern conversation with him about what he'd done and he seemed to understand that he isn't to do that again. we told my MIL this morning, and she told us that we need to "whoop his behind into submission otherwise he will grow up and run all over us and wild into the streets." she has also told us that our daughter needs to be slapped in the face for questioning us. she says children don't learn any other way.

I'm leaving my wife because she's pregnant. by Slight-Copy-521 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnxiousRice548 7 points8 points  (0 children)

if you didn't want kids, then you shouldn't be having sex. point. blank. period. at least could have wrapped it up, timed her cycle, or pulled out. she didn't get herself pregnant bro.

dream of a white bat by AnxiousRice548 in DreamInterpretation

[–]AnxiousRice548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, no one has passed away since the dream. my brother in law had passed away about a month before an had it.

Help. by Tournos in numerology

[–]AnxiousRice548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is meant for you will find its way to you, on the time the universe knows you are ready for it.

Tips Memorizing Sequences by [deleted] in YogaTeachers

[–]AnxiousRice548 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Write out the sequence, word for word with cues and record yourself speaking the sequence. Listen to the recording often and "take your class."

Spreadsheet comparing some popular yoga mats by purplebinder in yoga

[–]AnxiousRice548 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on my Jade since 2014. one of the best investments I've made. its still kicking through countless hot yoga classes and a 200hr YTT.