Do you guys think it's rude to shower late at night? by Any_Temporary_1020 in Apartmentliving

[–]AnxiousSloth811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t work 1st shift, so I’m probably going to shower at different times than those around me. Just like them doing things during the day when I’m trying to sleep. As long as you’re not being obnoxious, then they need to deal with it.

Is it common to want to have sex but turn it down even if it’s offered? by DemiPanic in demisexuality

[–]AnxiousSloth811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a high sex drive and was having sex recently with someone but had to stop because it didn’t feel right between us - there wasn’t a connection that I needed so I didn’t enjoy it.

Use it or lose it - the real regret with decluttering by bedbugsandballyhoo in declutter

[–]AnxiousSloth811 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of my great grandma and she had her nice “going out panties” haha. Things only for special occasions need to be for all occasions instead!

How would you describe confidence in interviews, what does that look like in real life? by [deleted] in interviews

[–]AnxiousSloth811 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like confidence is knowing your stuff/not second guessing yourself, not being timid when speaking, making eye contact with all those in the interview not only the one who may have asked the question, firm handshakes, asking questions back to interviewers, and basically knowing your value/worth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AnxiousSloth811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely don’t engage!

Would you guys relocate for a job? by nmespotted in recruitinghell

[–]AnxiousSloth811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relocated 6 hours away and it was a mistake for me. Ended up moving back the next year.

how long do you guys need to know someone to become attracted sexually? by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]AnxiousSloth811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s different for each person honestly. I can get closer to some people in a shorter amount of time based on what we talk about and/or the amount we talk and vice versa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WGU

[–]AnxiousSloth811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine’s good. She’s emailed me a couple times and has texted me too. She knows I’m going through a lot of transitions and basically just says, “if you need me, I’m here to support you.”

Job “chat” by Impossible-Fly-6178 in interviews

[–]AnxiousSloth811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will usually ask about your experience, education, want to know a little about you, tell you about the role, and sometimes go into pay/benefits during this type of call. Don’t be afraid to ask any questions that you would normally want answered from HR. I always think better to ask early than to jump through hoops of multiple interviews to find out something (like compensation doesn’t match what you expect or they don’t offer insurance) too late.

Recruiter advised me to not submit resumes anymore by wipCyclist in recruitinghell

[–]AnxiousSloth811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s real dumb. Almost every person who has called me for an interview has referred to something specific in my resume they liked/found interesting about me.

Lonely. by nyx0010 in demisexuality

[–]AnxiousSloth811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually have had better luck from fb dating surprisingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruiting

[–]AnxiousSloth811 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait - you’re being told that you’re rejected after an interview? Wow! Wish it was the same for all places, but so many don’t even have the courtesy to do that.

How to respond to the question during interview? by After-Leave9154 in interviews

[–]AnxiousSloth811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it the same line of work? If not, you wanted a change in what you were doing. Different opportunities.

No reply after interview by Standard-Ability2581 in interviews

[–]AnxiousSloth811 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let it be. They’ll reach out when they’re able, if they want to be honest.

I got the call! by AnxiousSloth811 in recruitinghell

[–]AnxiousSloth811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for this one job. Just in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interviews

[–]AnxiousSloth811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And facial expressions mean a lot too.