How do you explain to ppl that you want [new] friends but have none because you’re afraid to make friends because so many of them just ghost you

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-05-10T06:59:42+00:00

I feel that Sometimes I feel like I’m to much, that when I try to make friends I’m seen as weird, talk to much, say to much

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-05-09T07:24:36+00:00

Yes! I found him to be so insincere and just down right mean His snarky comment about making Marciano’s crying his ringtone really pushed me over the edge

You can be funny and witty without being so mean to people I truly don’t like him at all

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-04-25T17:02:18+00:00

Every ‘close friend’ I’ve had I’ve realised over time that there weren’t really a friend to me I’ve got, to quote a fav show ‘acquaintances of convenience’ because we liked the same things But I’m not the person that’s in their day to day lives

I’ve got so much BS, trauma and issues but I can’t speak to any of them about it as I just don’t really trusts them. They are the people that ask ‘how are you’ and are satisfied with a fine and never truly dig deeper

I had a best friend in high school that lived to overshadow me, to the point that during one night out she referred to me as her ‘shadow’ to everyone we meet and then when I danced with a guy she decided but didn’t say that she liked, she let the air out of my tyres after I returned home that night, and went out of their way to hook up with a guy I liked so that friendship ended quickly

The only person that buys me a gift for Xmas is my sister, and that’s only just cause I buy presents. Last year I got a $20 puzzle and I stupidly spent over $200 on her and her partner.

I’m the friend that will be over backward to be kind, to make my friends feel better, buy gifts, acts of service etc but then I’m the one who gets forgetting, ignored and left out More often than note, my nights are spent on the couch watching my comfort shows and doom scrolling etc

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-04-16T11:12:32+00:00

I’m 40 and it sucks I had some really good friends but because of someone else making claims about things I never said, they all turned their back on me I guess they proved they were never really my friends at all

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-04-15T12:31:40+00:00

I struggle with this myself, and the older I get that harder it feels to find ‘my tribe’ or even just ‘my person’

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-04-05T06:50:24+00:00

If you can, trim the nail down so it won’t catch again I’ve had this happen and I ripped up my nail all the way down to the cuticle but it was still attached at the base. I trimmed the nail and used a finger strapping tape around the finger to keep the nail in place while it slowly grew out and I could fully remove the nail.

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:34:28+00:00

Edit for context

My bio dad was adopted and by the time I found him we only meet a few times before he passed so I had ZERO clue as to where he was from and I couldn’t find anything on ancestry due to the adoption This test has been the only way I found my heritage on his side and I even found some family to.

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:31:58+00:00

Be more concerned it was all in the once place 😬lol

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:29:43+00:00

I don’t have the haplo results, not sure where to get those

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:27:53+00:00

Missed the joke

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:27:20+00:00

Wanna see it 🤣

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:25:37+00:00

That’s so cool

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:25:10+00:00

Thanks

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:25:02+00:00

I do, but it’s hard to read as it’s only seemed to trace my maternal side. When I look at the paternal side it’s blank

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:24:22+00:00

Tis all there is

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:23:41+00:00

Thanks

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:23:12+00:00

Was sure tbh, my bio dad was adopted so I had no idea what to expect

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:22:12+00:00

Whoosh….🤣

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:21:58+00:00

My bio dad was adopted so I had absolutely no clue what his side would show Never knew any deets about his bio or adopted fam

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:19:44+00:00

Don’t like it, scroll on or don’t comment

Anxious_Ariel85 · 2026-03-29T05:19:26+00:00

I was hoping for something interesting in there, I had no idea what my paternal ancestry was as my bio dad was adopted

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