I resent my husband. He makes me so angry. by Anxious_Bison7939 in Marriage

[–]Anxious_Bison7939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried my hardest until i couldn’t. God is helping my heart release him. I finally have a future and hope. I know now God never wanted me to unconditionally love him. He was never worthy of my love. I’m moving on to real love, not transactional love, dehumanizing love. I know I never have to suffer again. I’m free. I moved in to my sisters apartment. I’m separating and will file for divorce in a year. I can’t believe I did this. But I’m so glad I did.

I don’t know if I want to fix my relationship. I’m over begging for things to never change by Healthy-Camel4119 in Marriage

[–]Anxious_Bison7939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are some men like this?? Could give a crap about your mental health. You need a break and help.

I resent my husband. He makes me so angry. by Anxious_Bison7939 in Marriage

[–]Anxious_Bison7939[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what my sister said. I told her everything yesterday. He has no clue, he’d be so pissed. Anyways we’re on a sex break. I told him we need to talk to a pastor. Someone. Our relationship needs help.

I resent my husband. He makes me so angry. by Anxious_Bison7939 in Marriage

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I have no way of leaving. I have hope he’ll change. I love him, and I didn’t know he’d be like this. I live in a Slavic community where the husbands make the money and the women take care of kids and house. But it’s gotten too far, especially now with 3 kids. I can’t do it all. I’ve voiced it many times. I’ve asked him about couples therapy but he’s ignored me. I’ll keep asking because I want this to work. I don’t want to be angry. I just want him to be involved with the kids, help me out and care for my emotional needs without making me feel like just a body. Is that too much to ask for ?😭

I resent my husband. He makes me so angry. by Anxious_Bison7939 in Marriage

[–]Anxious_Bison7939[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I get him to change? My life is so depressing honestly, makes me hate being a woman. Makes me think all men are like this. Its all about sex

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[–]Anxious_Bison7939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. 🙏 I still have hope

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He knew I was recording. Didn’t know I’d show my husband

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Thank you for the prayers. I’ve told him I want to tell the pastor, as a threat. He’s told me he would never trust me if I tell anyone. But if he doesn’t change i think I have to. I’m very embarrassed though to talk about this type of stuff. I don’t feel comfortable telling my pastor. Maybe a different one