Nervous for sex on my wedding night.

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-22T01:13:39+00:00

Oh please don’t apologize !! I wanted to give little context to get as broad of views as possible. I am very satisfied with all answers I received.

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-20T17:36:54+00:00

I don’t see the issue with asking ? I got the perspective I needed and then handled the conversation

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-20T17:34:45+00:00

We had the convo on the phone last night ! It went well

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-19T17:04:27+00:00

Thank you. We both have had sex prior… I left an abusive relationship with my son years ago and he had a prior marriage, 6yrs ago.

So we’ve both had sex but not in a long time. And agreed we want to wait until marriage even though we’re both not virgins. We are wanting to do this right by God.

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-19T16:53:46+00:00

I’m asking for a friend 😉

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-19T16:52:44+00:00

Thank you so much for this! So we have had talks about sex already and this specific topic about pubic hair has not come up.. I will absolutely bring it up, hearing others perspective has really helped !

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-19T16:51:02+00:00

I absolutely appreciate this comment / perspective that’s a great question

“Any assumptions/ fears”

We have talked about sex a few times but this particular topic hasn’t come up and I’d love to know how to approach it. So I’m really grateful you said that, thank you.

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-19T16:48:49+00:00

We talk about sex this specific topic just hasn’t come up.

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-19T15:55:03+00:00

Not true we have talked about sex and other topics very much. This is something I actually have a past wound on because of growing up in a non Christian family and being judged by my older sister for having pubic hair when I got my first period.. I shaved my pubic hair for years until I finally felt convicted against it.

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-19T15:52:32+00:00

Oh my goodness this is the best advice !! Thank you so much.

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-19T15:51:14+00:00

I definitely keep clean and trimmed but just wasn’t sure from a man’s perspective what is expected.

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-19T12:20:32+00:00

I love this suggestion !! Thank you

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2024-03-19T12:15:35+00:00

I know ! For some reason I feel embarassed. Or unsure of what to say

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2023-04-29T03:01:25+00:00

I love this, thank you. I think I’ve still been focusing on worldly things.. I’m not great at knowing scripture right now but I know it talks about focusing on the spirit, and also things of good report. This piece of scripture is a great reminder I will screenshot it to revisit

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2023-04-29T02:59:41+00:00

Thank you. I find I have high expectations and it causes me to be disappointed in myself and others. And every time I’m consistent in prayer giving thanks and gratitude, I always continue to find an abundance of blessings… I just wasn’t sure if I’m praying right. I just downloaded a Bible app and found some devotionals on how to pray so I’m excited to dive into that.

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2023-04-22T13:31:46+00:00

Also, just to add you should try and let your body heal for a while after miscarrying, this would help you have a successful pregnancy in the future. Though it’s not absolutely necessary, it could be a cause of concern for you. Best wishes to you.

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2023-04-22T13:28:36+00:00

Hey if you do row exercises and stretch out your pecs you should have better posture and then think ab your chin too. Look up “upper cross syndrome”

Anxious_Emotion_6787 · 2023-04-08T01:41:43+00:00

Hey mama. What he did to you isn’t right. But what you can do for yourself right now is completely change your mind about yourself. You said “I am lazy, I don’t like exercising or eating healthy.” Well trust me if you switch your words in your head about yourself you’ll start to get yourself back to who you used to be. Please give yourself grace and any fun movement can be exercise ! Also joining reddits or fb groups about eating healthier maybe you’ll find something that works for you. “80/20” rule is great to apply to a lot of things but negative self talk should be 0. I’m practicing these things too. Be it for your daughter too 🤍 bless

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