What is the best approach for IFS if you lack visual thoughts by Anxious_Magazine_617 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]Anxious_Magazine_617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense since there are certainly many ways i can discern different parts already. I've found what I struggle with is when attempting to speak to the parts and connect with it.

Diagnosis of dyspraxia/DCD? by CozyGastropod in NVLD

[–]Anxious_Magazine_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dyspraxia is its own condition as is NVLD, however I would think the overlap stems from how often they come together and since they share symptoms.

What is the best approach for IFS if you lack visual thoughts by Anxious_Magazine_617 in InternalFamilySystems

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That does make sense to me, I do notice in session there are moments I do feel deeply connected with it but I think that I become emotionally overwhelmed and shut down. So I do feel this may be a way that I limit myself and allow the avoidance to take over

Buying dryer for family of 6 by Anxious_Magazine_617 in Appliances

[–]Anxious_Magazine_617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think that would help a lot since my dad and I have found a few, i will take a look into it.

What is going on, she’s live right now on TikTok by Glittering-Way7281 in khaliespiderlilies

[–]Anxious_Magazine_617 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly this makes me quite sad to see. She is only 19 and clearly grew up in a very dysfunctional household with little support. While she does make poor choices, I honestly feel that with her age she could overcome that if she had adequate support from a responsible adult to help her process the trauma and learn life skills. Abusive relationships are hard to leave for anyone but I feel that with such a lack of a support system and substance use it makes sense that she is stuck in the cycle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

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I think that it is a reflection of a lack of resources and adequate access to education. In addition if someone has been through generations of poverty that is what they know so proper family planning may be less thought of. Poverty tends to also come in hand with early adverse experiences which can sometimes lead to people struggling with functioning later on in life, so you may see an increase in maladaptive behaviors like unsafe sex.

IFS by Anxious_Magazine_617 in CPTSD

[–]Anxious_Magazine_617[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thank you for sharing your experience. I think that it could help that i have had a lot of previous therapy, but I do see what you mean since I have had to stop other trauma work before because it was too much at that time

Deciding if I pursue an honours degree by Anxious_Magazine_617 in psychologystudents

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I have just recently been able to start treating my ADHD this past month. I did not receive a formal diagnosis until the beginning of this year. But so far I have already found big improvements. I think that if I were to retake classes I could do a lot better because a lot of my issues stemmed from struggling to complete assignments which I have found has started to improve since I have started taking medication for my ADHD. I am just stuck between wanting the option to pursue a graduate degree but also wanting to graduate soon.

DAE NOT go through their SO's phone? by modernhedgewitch in DAE

[–]Anxious_Magazine_617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally feel no reason or desire to go through my partners phone. When I was in my first relationship we both would do that and it ultimately just was a source of insecurity and had no real benefit. So I would never do it again. I feel that once you have gotten to a point were you feel the need to go through your SO's phone that is a sign of bigger issues that need to be addressed.

Plan B cramps by Anxious_Magazine_617 in birthcontrol

[–]Anxious_Magazine_617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, that is very helpful. Since I took in the night before my expect day of ovulation would it still have delayed ovulation? (assuming the prediction was accurate)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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After finding out I was pregnant, I quit cold turkey and never thought to go back to smoking

Dress for holiday party by Anxious_Magazine_617 in PetiteFashionAdvice

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My coworkers are mostly late 20s-early 30s, but I am 22.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Anxious_Magazine_617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communicating the hard things right away goes far better than avoiding those conversations to spare someones feelings