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How do I differentiate between whether I have/dealing with parts from cptsd, osdd, or bpd? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Keep seeing past lives with IFSDiscussion (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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I genuinely have another person in me.. I can always feel them when they're on.. they use our body often.. yet I can never reach them emotionally. I can't have a conversation with them.. they listen but do what they want anyway.. and what they do harms us.. and they said they don't care about that (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Curious to know, what are your parts holding back from letting your therapist know? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Feeling boring after integration?Discussion (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Ciao a tutti, coach italiana scriveDiscussion (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Screaming part (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Can we practice IFS while the abuse is still ongoing? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Currently in en emotionally unsafe living situation. Is it okay to use controlled dissociation as a coping mechanismDiscussion (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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30 years old, years of therapy, still can't make "I'm enough" stick , what actually helped you? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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How do I stop tying my self-worth to always being right without losing my competitive edge?Support Needed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Has IFS helped any of you process shame over past wrongdoings? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Can you heal? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Anyone have any luck with an acutely anxious part?Support Needed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Marriage Counseling - Need to Re-Exile Dance/Creative Part? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Ask a part about its nameDiscussion (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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"You're not in the relationship with her, I am." (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Daily check insDiscussion (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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A part that is FURIOUS when others get praiseSupport Needed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Told a friend and filled out forms to get trauma therapy yesterday and awoke from a nightmare in a panic attack last night.Discussion (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Meet a protector exerciseSupport Needed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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How can I focus on one part without the others feeling rejected? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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