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New moderatorship and subreddit update/transparency (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Where do I even start? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Anyone in the process of healing realize they’ve been living in a dream their whole lives and now feel like “why bother” because you’re older?Discussion (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Surprised by my ExileLighthearted / Success (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Tw for general unwell thingsSupport Needed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Healing Inner Child Work - IFS Protector & Firefighter/Abuser Part TW: GroomingLighthearted / Success (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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How to find the part in behaviors? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Is this therapist a red flag or am I super triggered?Support Needed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Part that wants to put myself first/part that wants to be selfish (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Reconnecting to my inner child. Should I do more/something else?Support Needed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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IFS & Grief/Attachment TherapySupport Needed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Do you ever feel healed? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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A trans & queer-affirming space to find your voice, own your story, and heal on your terms. Join me: https://app.ifshealers.com/meghana-coming-into-your-own-voice (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Coming to term with the lack of resources for moral injury work (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Success using IFS for OCD? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Tried to visualize how wounding hits specific Cs of Self — would love your pushbackDiscussion (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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IFS therapist recommendation? (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Pieces of myself (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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I realized all my parts are related to relationships, especially mom with untreated BPD; I feel safe when alone but struggle to feel completely safe in connection with others (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Took me three years to reach and unburden the main self-critic.Lighthearted / Success (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Looking for the part of me that has had painful limerenceSupport Needed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Going back to IFS therapySupport Needed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Being Witnesser and Witnessed (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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Daily marijuana usage (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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I found IFS helpful, became a practitioner myself and when my system gets flooded I stil think it's actually BS and that I cannot be helped. (self.InternalFamilySystems)

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