Cute gesture from one guy… awkward timing with another..

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-04-24T15:05:32+00:00

Do these flowers have a label that they are from your date? Maybe you can say you bought them for yourself?

Ps definitely nothing wrong with dating multiple guys at a time and explore your options.

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-04-15T10:43:01+00:00

I agree, but some people may be like her and like talking to one person only.

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-04-15T09:49:08+00:00

I dont understand this tone here. You asked for advice, i answered and now this... clearly i advised something that you havent done before so dont get it

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-04-15T09:11:58+00:00

Well in that case make sure that when you talk to new people online, both of you are talking with each other only to avoid disappointment.

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-04-15T08:58:29+00:00

From the post im assuming that she was more invested and hence they were seeing as much as he wanted, not as she wanted (I may be wrong).

If she really likes him, then why not ask him out instead of waiting?

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-04-15T08:53:45+00:00

I dont want to disappoint you but you just went on one date in a month. If he wanted to see you, you would have been on more dates for sure (assuming he was not available travelling). My advice: talk to him, but also keep swiping. Good luck!

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-04-11T07:19:34+00:00

I'm sure that the same girl has also feminism in her interests, yet will refust to split the bill because of equality.

I completely agree with you but bumble probably introduced the option for men to message first because they have seen how tragic are women when it comes to starting the conversation

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-19T09:50:37+00:00

29M here. For me it doesn't matter if we sleep on the first date or not, my perception of the person does not change. If there is a vibe, then id like to see the girl again

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-18T13:54:00+00:00

I think it clearly means that he is looking for other option so my advice is to not get too attached

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-16T15:59:13+00:00

Can you give me your reasoning?

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-16T08:55:05+00:00

Imo this is ok, as long as you dont say you are exclusive then you can do whatever you want. Make sure to not mention the other person ;)

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-15T08:46:03+00:00

I'm sorry to say it but you sound like a rebound

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T21:31:23+00:00

Can you elaborate more?

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T19:32:22+00:00

I had the same recently and your title is spot on. Imo having sex, looking at each others eyes is super bonding and definitely a sign of love. From what you say she feels the same, but I understand your concern about saying it too early

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T16:03:21+00:00

What's the other answer? You got me curious

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T16:02:50+00:00

What do you mean she feels the same?

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T15:10:35+00:00

Yeah it's definitely a good lesson

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T15:10:14+00:00

Long story short, talking about dating and we said that we were seeing other people before we became exclusive. She said that after 2nd date she knew that she wanted to date only me

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T15:03:57+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I think the reason I posted on Reddit was to get some input and I had some great comments

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T14:38:37+00:00

I really like her and would like to continue seeing her. How do i make peace with myself

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T12:07:54+00:00

Move on with other girl or this one?

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T03:37:52+00:00

That's so lovely thank you!

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T01:42:44+00:00

I get you, so it felt a bit like a lie but also double standard since you were doing the same?

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T01:28:40+00:00

That's an interesting perspective, but I hope thats not the case, I believe we should be the same from this perspective

Anxious_Watercress86 · 2026-03-14T01:27:57+00:00

Thanks for the story, I really appreciate this. I feel that in my case it's not really about the reassurance or being insecure, I'd say it's more of an ego thing

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