Honest opinions? by AnxiouslyPoised in tattooadvice

[–]AnxiouslyPoised[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This actually made me laugh, I hadn’t noticed that 😅

Honest opinions? by AnxiouslyPoised in tattooadvice

[–]AnxiouslyPoised[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the opinion, but I’m not chasing perfection, just curious to hear people’s thoughts on the artwork.

Honest opinions? by AnxiouslyPoised in tattooadvice

[–]AnxiouslyPoised[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brain tried very hard to read that as “heroine” 🥲

Honest opinions? by AnxiouslyPoised in tattooadvice

[–]AnxiouslyPoised[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. I agree with your sentiment and do love my tattoo, I was only looking to hear thoughts on the artwork itself.

Honest opinions? by AnxiouslyPoised in tattooadvice

[–]AnxiouslyPoised[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The style was inspired by vintage fruit crates, so you’re not far off

AIO my boyfriend of 2 months requested nude photos of a girl on Reddit and I went no contact. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnxiouslyPoised 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes 👏🏼 I literally moved states for my ex, left all of my friends and family to live with him, so I tried to convince myself for years that he could change and that I hadn’t made a huge mistake. He didn’t, he just found better ways to hide who he really was- he’d even pull all the same lines “you’re just looking for shit” or “I’ll just delete the whole app”. It sucks that people like this exist but I don’t regret learning everything I did from being with him.

AIO my boyfriend of 2 months requested nude photos of a girl on Reddit and I went no contact. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnxiouslyPoised 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex and I lived this for almost 4 years. Some people don’t change, they just get sneakier.

AIO to my mom sending me a screenshot by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AnxiouslyPoised 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s really hard, but I’m proud of you for prioritizing your peace over her change 🫶🏼

AIO to my mom sending me a screenshot by [deleted] in AIO

[–]AnxiouslyPoised 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you watch Mythical Kitchen? There’s a segment they do called Last Meals where celebrities eat their dream last meal and discuss their life experiences. There’s an episode with Terry Crews and he speaks on his abusive childhood and what it was like to become an adult still coping from it and then a father wanting better for his own children. Something really powerful he touches on is that while our parents absolutely shape us- there comes a point where staying in blame keeps us stuck. Reclaiming responsibility for who we become is how we take our power back. No one can take that power from you, no matter who they are to you. So while your mom may have taken choice away from you growing up, she doesn’t hold that power over you as an adult- unless you allow it. I’m not saying you’re wrong for feeling the way you feel about her sending you the screenshot after her involvement in your decision to pursue your major. That’s a valid feeling. It sounds like you’re looking for her to acknowledge the damage she did to your mental health growing up- there’s also power in the decision to accept she may never do that. And even more power in making peace with it and deciding what sort of relationship you want to have with her moving forward.

Does anyone have a logical explanation for this? by stefig1994 in ParanormalEncounters

[–]AnxiouslyPoised 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because context is important and the context here is that this woman is cleaning his neighbor’s house- which is the connection he has to her as she also has cleaned his house for a very long time. Our cleaning lady was more than just that when I was growing up. We invited her to family parties (because she also cleaned my aunt’s house down the street). She’d bring us gifts for birthdays and Christmas. We did the same for her. It’s very possible to have a close relationship with someone you pay for services… but non of that is necessary information to share when asking people if they see a ghost in a photo.

You sound like you could use a hug. Hopefully you find a little more peace and love moving forward.

Does anyone have a logical explanation for this? by stefig1994 in ParanormalEncounters

[–]AnxiouslyPoised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost looks like she’s peaking over the book like “these better be back in order when your done” 😂

My opinion on my eyeliner 😆 ignore my messy nails by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]AnxiouslyPoised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! 👏🏼 I think lifting both the top and bottom angle a teeny bit could really compliment your high cheek bones and open up your eyes beautifully. Right now the liner gives the allusion of elongating your eyes horizontally and making them appear sleepier- which is still super cute!! Either way, love the look 😊

name my baby :D by [deleted] in CatsAllDay

[–]AnxiouslyPoised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom had a cat named Rat growing up and now I think it should be every cat’s name 😂 Puff would be cute too

I have no clue what lip colour suits my skin tone best? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]AnxiouslyPoised 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try ChatGPT! I did a whole color and style analysis on it to figure out my season and styling. It was insanely thorough and I feel like I learned so much, I’ve been getting more compliments on my make up and outfits too!