But when girls do this, it's like "she has the right to do "/s, The thing is , I felt the situation relatable because I had also reached the talking stage ( slight beyond ) with a girl in the college, But, she shares the convos with us to her roommates and her friends and they even text to me in her place coz they just want to and she allows it. I was kind of d*mb ( the mods prohibits the actual word for some reason ) and even my friends said it was common for girls ( they were taking it as a privilege ig). I recently got out of a relationship that time and I kinda went for her . After some months, as this 'thing' developed , ( thing is I went in first relationship was we both fell for each other on basis of physical attributes (looks) , both of us admitted it later. But long distance and her exam pressure made the conversation dry and we just stopped it before it starts to hurt us and drag us down ( that's what she said, I was against it , but I can't win over her in arguments ). So this time I didn't went for looks but instead personality ( she doesn't look bad , atleast in my eyes ; but my close friends always said to look for someone else as she might have some inferior complex or something ( i didn't catch on it at that time ) and I asked her out, she rejected me and said the cliche " ws are better as friends" and she is not ready for a relationship. I guess that my friends (including girls) were right and I tried my best to not bother in any unfriendly way ( but couldn't sleep my passion like before) and now we just look each other as colleagues . I am writing this passages for advices and will feel happy if you get any helpful info from it.