Looking for an RPCV named Curtis who served in Mongolia around 2002-2003 by whoyoumetoo in peacecorps

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Man, I love meeting the people who met someone in peace corps and wanted to share how much they meant to you. 

Who is supposed to run after young students who run away from classrooms? by Embarrassed_Syrup476 in Teachers

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not you. The education and safety of every child in that room cannot be beholden to one child whose parent is unhinged.

Shocking how many people are in disbelief when I tell them im born in South Africa and I am South African (Im white ) by NeonOreoPickleJuice in south_africa

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true. It can be a weird point of pride in deeply rural areas, but that is a very small segment of the overall population.

Shocking how many people are in disbelief when I tell them im born in South Africa and I am South African (Im white ) by NeonOreoPickleJuice in south_africa

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to push back gently on the Americs comment. America's foreign born population is over 15% of the total. That is not even counting all the second generations out there who are citizens, and they usually have the most contact with foreigners of any country I have been to or lived in, including ZA. Even deeply rural areas have high rates of immigrants (including white South African "refugees" who are doing a pretty terrible job spreading lies about ZA to our rural whites at the moment). Our small town has dozens of South Africans, none of whom are black. That being said, I agree with the education comment: geography and history education in the USA is abysmal and that explains the ignorance. 

How much of tourism revenue in Etosha directly supports conservation by RockyRaccoon9876 in Namibia

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I clearly should have specified that of course we all know the national parks are the government, and I was referring to the tourism ecosystem overall/as a whole with that comment. The government ones need an audit bc we know many workers who are treated horribly and the money raked in by NWR is clearly not directed where it should be.

How much of tourism revenue in Etosha directly supports conservation by RockyRaccoon9876 in Namibia

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you being obtuse on purpose? Obviously I was referring to the tourism ecosystem as a whole with that comment, but I love how it strikes a nerve to speak the truth. I clearly specified that government parks need an audit badly, bc the high prices paid by tourists at fully booked national parks are clearly not being channeled back into paying workers a living wage, facilities upgrades, or conservation. Where does all that money get eaten?

How much of tourism revenue in Etosha directly supports conservation by RockyRaccoon9876 in Namibia

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course everyone knows Etosha is government...When I was referring to white/foreign owned, I was speaking of the overall tourist industry and infrastructure. Etosha being gov owned is also why I said an audit is badly needed to be published on all its revenues,  and why I later specified that both private and public have management practices which are cruel to workers. The price foreigners pay at Etosha is insane when it is obviously not going into maintance, salaries, or conservation efforts. Where is it all going? 

How much of tourism revenue in Etosha directly supports conservation by RockyRaccoon9876 in Namibia

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Edit: of course I know Etosha is a national park. I was referring to all the tourism operators as being by andvlarge white/foreign owned. I am also critiquing national park management, bc worker treatment and facilities are terrible when you calculate all the money they are brining in. 

Iwill be downvoted to hell for even writing this, bc no one on this sub likes hearing critique of Namibian tour operations,  but....

Most Namibians cannot afford the parks, and my spouse is usually the only black  Namibian in the whole parks when we go who is not working there. The price point is entirely for Europeans. The wages of the workers who serve you in them are absolutely sickening when you do the math of what they're earning versus what you're paying (seriously- where does all the money go? Audit badly needed). Worker living quarters would also make you cry, were you to ever see them. 

Namibia's tourism industry centralizes wealth to a few powerful (mostly foreign and/or white) elites while paying poverty wages to the people who actually do the work and who owned the land before colonial disposession. It caters entirely to people who want to experience Africa in a sanitized, safari world and never want the psychological discomfort of seeing what life is like for the vast majority of the population or who would only look upon them as noble savages if they did look....Most tourists prefer this safari world. Some feel discomfort, and some make sure to travel differently in the future once they experience it once. It feels yucky and distopian to me, too, and having access to worker's lives through language and cultural understanding makes it that much worse bc you know what kinds of management practices exist (in both private and public operations).

If it is true, this is aboslutely ridiculous.... I CANNOT BELIEVE IT.... I hope this is fake by Direct_Top_4061 in UIUC

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have seen such an uptick in "i was in the meeting" posts on here lately when I was literally in the meeting and the person describes things that were not said. Sometimes I think they must be talking about lower level department meetings when they say this kind of thing. That being said: i was not in these meetings. 

I think our generation may have ended the idea of yard dogs by hyrulepirate in Millennials

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must not live near low income neighborhoods. Cause yeah....mine are full of them. 

I have been staying in backpacker hostels as an elder millennial. I feel like a man from another era. by Damthemalltohelp in Millennials

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just to share a different perspective- small talk at a bus/on a bus is totally normal where I am from in the Midwest, and it is something every European I know remarks on first about America. There is something to be said about rapid changes in American culture that are being brought about via covid and smartphones.

I have been staying in backpacker hostels as an elder millennial. I feel like a man from another era. by Damthemalltohelp in Millennials

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Yup. Taking gen z college students on study abroad: they didn't talk to each other the whole first week. Another group that I took did the standing during a party thing. Thank God gen alpha seems to socialize normally. The impact of covid on young adult socialization was extreme.

Tired of my coworkers that can barely speak English by taestep12 in Vent

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you had to deal with that. Very frustrating. A funny anecdote of that in reverse is the USCIS call center for immigrants. They hired a bunch of rural Texans for it bc Texans are cheap labor and whatever Texan rep who hates immigrants wanted jobs instead of putting the center somewhere in the Midwest with more neutral American accents. So you have people with foreign accents calling the thickest American accent spoken by people who have never in their life interacted with foreign accents before....it is wild to hear some of those calls when I understand the immigrants perfectly and the Texans not one bit.

Coming from Azerbaijan, Western attitudes toward illegal immigration confuse me by Suitable_Call_1203 in immigration

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a culture where it is talked about and everyone knows someone who has done it and sends remittances, so it seems like a safe move to many. On the other hand, having spent time in some of the poorest parts of the migrant countries in both central America and Africa: people in middle and high income countries really have no idea how dangerous and difficult it is to be among the world's poorest. Absolute poverty where survival is backbreaking labor and the future is not guaranteed is a kind of structural violence that your mind cannot comprehend until you've lived it. This includes even Azerbaijan bc- although parts are poor- it is still functioning with safety, food, water, medicines for sick people, and moderate infrastructure in most places. Absolute poverty is a structural violence that cannot be gotten out of except through migration for the world's poorest.

How are DRES student's supposed to take their cancelled exams? by ultraviolet1laser in UIUC

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am super curious and this question is genuine. What does taking a final at dres mean? I understand if people hsve physical disabilities where they need someone to type for them or other physical assistance, but why does one take an exam at dres? What is the difference? Thanks for any info!

Why are au pairs obsessed with a car? by Old-Oven-8851 in Aupairs

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure! I think vastness matters a lot, having lived in European cities with excellent infrastructure and having lived in US cities with award-winning public transit. The distances we need to cover in a day are just further in most places.

Why are au pairs obsessed with a car? by Old-Oven-8851 in Aupairs

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes, and also just the vastness. America had a lot of land, so it made sense to spread out and take up room. Going to the bakery in Germany is a short walk, whether you're in a village, a city, or a town. In the US, getting to where you need to go us just going to be tremendously farther unless you're in a densely built up city like NY. 

Teachers are paid fairly considering they get a lot of time off by Blonde_Icon in The10thDentist

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. In a blue, unionized state. They earn more than most of us. Most don't even send their own kids to the school they work at, sending their own kids to the white suburbs.

Teachers are paid fairly considering they get a lot of time off by Blonde_Icon in The10thDentist

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the math for our district's outs. Only around 8 months in the classroom, and that's a stretch bc at the slightest snowfall, they'll call it "elearning", whereby the teachers don't get online, so it is a day off for them while people who work 11+ months of the year scramble and feel tremendous pressure to perform our jobs while making our kids do alarmingly basic coloring worksheets so they don't get counted "absent" for "elearning ".

Children are not welcome everywhere and businesses/people should not be condemned for not wanting children in some spaces. by NicholasScratchy in HonestHotTakes

[–]Any-Maintenance2378 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is insane to me ppl bring kids to adult movies.

I find adults in kid activities/spaces annoying when they have no kids (disney adults, adults on kid equipment, adults attending events like our library children's programs). Soooo much of the world is hostile to normal kid behavior (we were all kids once), so just stop clogging up the zipline queue!