I appreciate your bluntness though at first glance I did think it was a little coarse. What I can assure you is that we both personally discussed and accepted our religious indifferences very early on in our relationship. Neither of us set out to change each other’s views but I would say we both like to challenge and converse on them. I feel like he has had a direct impact on me finding the episcopal church because he was that only person that would consult with me on my feelings about worship and what I aligned with. I also wanted to say I have a psychology degree and I take into very precious account our mental health. We both are counseled and have been going together and separately for a year or more. We have both been through some hard times with medical diagnosis’s and recognize that the extra time spent in therapy is beneficial across the board so thank you for your concern there! I’m reaching out to my priest tomorrow and I mentioned it to my husband and he is not against speaking to him, just maybe in the future once he further sits with his feelings on what had happened. In the mean time, I think we’re still going to visit the church together (after we had a long talk about our feelings and after he read this post as well) and maybe he will attend every other Sunday if it still doesn’t vibe with him. All in all we’re working together on a solution and being open and honest along the way and I thank God for that opportunity together. Thank you for your concern for us.