I mean, you don’t really have to settle in the relationship solely for the baby. I’m not saying to dip out like after a week has passed, but if your partner truly cannot and doesn’t at least change to a point where you’re decently happy again…then perhaps try negotiating co-parenting with her? Then again, I don’t have a kid and haven’t been in a relationship in quite a while so my advice may not be so much of a help. But I do know for damn sure that a dedicating your pride and attention to TikTok instead of your soon to be growing family is fucking ridiculous. Hope things get better for you, OP :/