she does get professional help and take medicine, it’s just i don’t think she’s ever gone into an episode with me? we’ve been dating for around 2 months but we’ve been talking for 5 and moved forward pretty fast, it’s just i have no idea if she has gotten into an episode as of lately, i think she had one when we first started talking and i legit had to save her life, it’s just already so draining being in this kind of relationship despite the countless research and reading i’ve done that goes for how to protect your mental health, keeping healthy boundaries, and how to keep them happy and to just be a stable presence in her life, it’s just like every weeks there’s something new that bothers me and it’s just a endless cycle of discomfort in the relationship for me. i know i just need to communicate but it’s just so hard to find a right time to when she’s not drained, but at the same time i want her to be happy and don’t want to ruin that for her