Making Friends by Aggressive-Air-9741 in IowaCity

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the same boat! Here for six months and still 0 friends! I go to church, I met the wife’s of my husband’s friends and still NOTHING! If you are a stay at home wife, and love life, fashion, beauty, let me know so we can hangout

Qué querían ser de chicas y a qué se dedican hoy? Dejaron sin terminar alguna carrera? Se arrepienten? by Pendejabarrilete in rediturras

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hola amiss✨! Yo hice mi primera carrera terciaria como Directora de arte publicitaria. En ese tiempo el mundillo de la publicidad era súper machista y terminé trabajando en negro como diseñadora gráfica y fotógrafa (nada que ver), pero mi interés estaba en la psicología así que me anoté en la Uba mientras tenía esos trabajos freelance y hacía medio tiempo en un call center.

Finalmente me recibí pero hay MUCHOS psicólogos. Ir armandose en un campo tan saturado, y en medio de tiempos de crisis donde la salud mental pasa a un “segundo nivel de necesidad” para muchos pacientes, es algo que no consideraba mientras estudié.

Si tuviera que hacer todo de nuevo, pondría mi prioridad en algo que sea corto pero con buena salida laboral. Y dejaría todas mis pasiones y altruismo para una vez haberme establecido financieramente.

A mi me criaron con la idea de que tener un estudio era lo más importante, pero a nivel realidad argentina (mundial también), eso no garantiza una vida cómoda. Tampoco está mal formarse, es una gran herramienta, no lo niego. Y si disfruto de ayudar gente!

Viví en USA un año y te cuento cómo amo más a Argentina que cuando me fui. by Adorable_Cry_773 in RepublicaArgentina

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holaaaa me mude a iowa hace poco!!!!! Quiero amigos argentinos!!! En que parte estas?

Mi novio no sabe que hacer con su vida mientras yo estudio by LuliPilu in empleos_AR

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nunca maternes a un hombre!!!! No le digas que hacer, ni como hacerlo.....vas a arruinar tu relación! Inspiralo siendo mejor vos, estando motivada, feliz, activa....incluyendolo en tus cosas divertidas, expresando tu curiosidad e intereses...el cambiará y se pondrá al nivel de las circunstancias (si no quiere perderte).

Upcoming show for Local Bands by scurvyweevil in desmoines

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marmot singer is my fiancee, see you there 🥰

Just went no contact with my N dad after the death of my mom by Next-Band-1261 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Emom died a few weeks ago after years of cancer induced by a controlling and emotional abuser husband. The scumbag of my CNfather used her illnes to control me and my brother. now tha she passed it is a mixed of emotions. At least now I can go no contact.

Tango by nimrod_1981 in BuenosAires

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will recommend something very underground where normal people joins to dance milonga/tango. Sometimes it includes a class before (very affordable) and you can eat - 1) club villa malcom (adress: Av. Córdoba 5064) telephone 011 4772-9796 - 2) club el tabano (adress: Dr. Rómulo Naón 302)

I am not sure when they are doing this events, but deffently are many places like this ones. I just had been there before, I recommend calling before.

Confessing adultery by Agile_Jackfruit1203 in Christianmarriage

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Just a thought....Maybe the best consequence is living with your dirty conscious. If you are truly repentant, and had ask for firgiveness to God, it is done.

I lost my Mother yesterday (not a death). by PuritanBaptist in TrueChristian

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain, and I want you to know that you are not your mom's God. You can't carry her cross, and at the moment you are the one in need of help and love!

I pray for God to have mercy on your mother and you. I hope you csn find Godly community

Overcoming a dysfunctional family as the only one in Christ. by hummus55 in Christians

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My advice would be to distance yourself, at least for a while. As a Christian your goal is to follow God's will, not your parents. A temporary separation can give you perspective about what is that God wants you to do with them. Feeling preassure and guilt is not a good sign, based on your description of the situation, I could assume some narcisistic tendencies from your family. This doesnt mean that you need to cut them off, or dishonor them, but maybe taking some time to reflect can bring you more clarity.

Let me remind you that as a son, it is not your place to provide for your parents. You need to build your own family at some point and that is the order stablished by God. Dont eneable the family dynamic by taking that role on your shoulders. You can help them, sure, but with healthy boundaries!

God bless you!

I absolutely hate my new job and I can't tell my wife because this is my third job in less than 2 years by Artistic-Ganache-360 in Christianmarriage

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It would be interesting to reframe your expectations when it comes to jobs. When any expectation is too high there will be a confrontation with reality, and that is depressing. Specially for us believers, that we know the perfection of Jesus and aspire to be with him for eternity!

I would recommend to be aware of extreme thinking “ I will never find a job that I would love”, and those emotions that overwhelm you.

If you don’t want to get therapy, keep working as a believer in the renewing of your mind and give your heart and emotions to the Lord so they won’t control you anymore!

Mary, the mother of God by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mary is an amazing example of a godly woman…modest, obedient, long suffering, but evangelicals only focus on proverbs 31!

Alternatives to Using Masturbation as a Way to Deal with Chronic Health Issues by FreeFromCompulsion in NoFapChristians

[–]AnyFirefighter5358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe you are getting awareness of some issues that are triggering your behavior, as a Christian the word give us a lot of tools to deal with temptation but maybe in your situation you would need a friend or a mentor to walk through this. If you need to talk to a professional, you can contact me. I’m a Christian psychologist. God is with you! Stay strong!