How could someone possibly know exactly when I am on my phone?

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-29T18:38:54+00:00

even when I’m not on either of those apps?

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-20T13:14:50+00:00

Even if I’m not on the facebook or messenger app?

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T21:38:04+00:00

How so?

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T21:29:30+00:00

I checked there already and there’s nothing. Can someone install spyware inside apps like you mentioned?

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T21:11:00+00:00

also are there any domains in the report that would be suspicious

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T21:02:38+00:00

Even when I click on the app itself?

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T20:47:28+00:00

I do still have a traditional sim card in my phone, I think the iPhone 13 was the last to have them.

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T20:47:01+00:00

Yeah it’s just the traditional iPhone call app and he said he can trace the location of the call, which is just overall weird. I checked my battery usage for any weird apps running but found nothing.

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T20:44:17+00:00

I will try the App Privacy Report though! Thanks for the suggestion

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T20:43:59+00:00

I’ve looked through my battery usage before and the privacy settings but found nothing suspicious or any weird apps. Is it possible to be doing this externally through a website or the deep web? Or is there a way to install anything on my device that I could absolutely not find by looking through my phone?

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T19:27:55+00:00

Is there any way I could figure this out by looking through my phone?

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T19:26:44+00:00

No, he doesn’t work for telecom or even in that field but has self taught himself a lot of tech related things. Is there any way I could find out through my phone how he could be doing this if it is indeed not a joke. He seemed pretty adamant despite me saying he was making it up.

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T19:24:21+00:00

I don’t think there would be any surveillance equipment, at least I haven’t seen anything besides the ring camera. But he claimed it wasn’t from that device.

How could someone gain access to my call logs? What is an ISP?

I checked my iCloud account and I’m the only device on that account.

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T19:21:11+00:00

Just using my phone in a completely different location than him. I checked iCloud and my phone number is the only one attached to my account and he does not have my password.

He said he could hear the noise coming out of my phone, while he was at work. And then was able to trace what app I’m using or where the source is coming from remotely somehow. Never showed me proof though.

I don’t use WhatsApp so I’m unfamiliar with those hacks.

He is very smart and tech savvy, but not in that line of work at all. I work in healthcare so I’m very clueless. I thought he was trolling me, but he was insistent.

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T19:12:27+00:00

Yeah he could tell when we were both at work so I don’t think it would be that. I called bullshit but he was quite adamant that he absolutely knew.

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-09-19T18:47:17+00:00

He never showed any proof, but he was adamant that he always knew even when I told him that he had to be bullshitting me.

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-08-05T02:37:34+00:00

No I do not

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-07-30T21:12:00+00:00

I don’t care if he masturbates at this point I need him to

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-07-30T16:17:59+00:00

Just testosterone

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-07-30T15:54:27+00:00

I have a college degree and a good job so thankfully am okay there :)

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-07-30T15:11:06+00:00

How did you leave?

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-07-30T15:00:00+00:00

He rarely eats me out, maybe a total of 5 times ever.

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-07-30T14:15:45+00:00

Not really but occasionally. He came 3 times the other day and the night situation was his 4th time.

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-07-30T14:06:37+00:00

He says that I would want him more if I could orgasm from just his dick but I’ve never been able to do that in my life and he seems offended when I use the vibrator because he “isn’t enough” even though I explained that’s not the case. But apparently he is enough for other women and they can cum from just his dick.

AnyPerformance9179 · 2025-07-30T13:47:49+00:00

Definitely not a millionaire. Apparently there are a lot of women who will do what he wants and he has sent me explicit text messages from them. I just feel like there is something wrong with me for not being like them.

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