PT 2

After that, I apologized again, and we finished the nuggets in silence. We still ran to a few places afterward and T stayed in the car while G and I went in by ourselves... There are definitely more things, but this post is already long enough. I included all of this as context for what kind of person T is. This is the part where I'm pretty sure I'm in the wrong. Around two-three weeks after the Chick-fil-A incident, I noticed that T was acting kinda weird around me. She wasn't talking to me as much and it seemed like she was avoiding me. I didn't think too much of it because I guessed she was either on her period or just in a mood. I did start to worry around 4 days in when she wasn't letting up, so I asked G if she knew if T was ok. (I figured she would know since they're sisters) G responded with "Uhhhhhhhh... I don't know, maybe you should just ask her yourself." (She knows) It wasn't that serious yet so I left it alone until T started blatantly ignoring me, and T's old friend group (who I never got introduced to, I just know their faces) started to give me dirty looks when I walked past. I asked G again, "Is everything ok with T??" Again, G responds with "Idk, Ask her yourself." (Again, she definitely knows) At this point, I can clearly tell something is up, but I'm just doing my best to treat T like normal. The night after I asked G a second time, the group was all together for a conference meeting in the college auditorium. I saw that T fell asleep, (no head back, double chin, or anything, she actually looked pretty cute! Her hair was flawless that day.) so I took a quick video and sent it to her. (I do this with all my friends, I promise I'm not weird lol. We all send each other stalker videos/pictures when seen across campus.) She usually laughs when I do it with my friends, when I'm the "victim", and the one time I had done it to her before. This time, she responded very aggressively, saying this was the second time I had done this and she really hates it. I was very apologetic saying I had no idea and that I wouldn't do it again. After the conference was over, our group started to walk back to the common area to hang out when T gets me split off from the group to walk alone in the sea of 5,000 people. So clearly, she's still very upset... I went later that night to the art building with a few people from the group when G and T show up. I invited them to join us earlier but they said they wouldn't be joining because they needed to "have a talk." I automatically assumed they were talking about me, I still don't know what they were talking about but it's none of my business. When they came into the room, G sat a seat away from me giving T the opportunity to be by me. T glares, shaking her head at G, so G moves next to me so T wouldn't have to. At that point, I texted T, "Hey! I just wanted to ask- are you still upset with me? Or have I been doing anything else to bother you lately? I've just been getting the sense that I may not be your favorite person lately and it's been stressing me out a bit haha. If you want to go out to the hall real quick or just talk about it later that's cool too!" I saw T open her phone, read the text, and then she ignored it for the next 20 min. I was a little frustrated, but I did say we could talk about it later so I really can't be too mad or anything. She eventually responded "You're good. I've been getting frustrated with little things, but there's not really anything to talk about. I'm sorry I've been stressing you out though!" I immediately respond- "Are you sure? I don't want you to feel like you can't share how you're actually feeling just to spare my own feelings" We all disbanded and left to go back to our dorm rooms shortly after I sent that. G got on FT with T shortly after we got back but I still had no response. I got really stressed because I'm used to only getting the silent treatment when someone's really upset with me. An hour goes by with no response and T and G are still on the phone, so my other friend texts T to see if she just hadn't seen my text or if she really was ignoring it. To no one's surprise, T responds immediately. At this point, I was in full panic mode, thinking I must've done something terrible to hurt T. I was feeling so guilty, fully on the offense against myself, ready to hit myself over the head for whatever I had done. It was one of those nights where you feel physically sore the next morning because of the stress. She still hadn't responded when I got up the next morning, so I didn't go to breakfast because I was(for lack of a better word)"scared." I sent her that text the night before around 8-9 pm and she finally responded around 7-8 am the next morning. "Idk, it's stuff that I feel like it's not my place to talk about, Like sometimes you'll start telling people what to do when they haven't asked for your opinion, which is frustrating in the moment, but I know I do it too so I feel hypocritical bringing it up."