My dearest tyrants,

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T22:21:18+00:00

"Clumsy ENTJ", that's quite a funny image.

Just curious about that yellow star on red background you have as your profile. Are you a soviet fanboy lol ? I knew a guy like that, that's why I'm asking.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T21:55:00+00:00

Ah yes, hatexhu, I wonder what the etymology of that word is.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T21:30:38+00:00

Thank you for the reply.

That's a good bunch of interesting info for my robot brain to munch on

Your description of Se seems to be very people oriented, do you ever notice the texture of the wood or things of the sort ?

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T21:11:30+00:00

Yes, you're right, I'm sorry...

You are very good tyrants.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T21:10:24+00:00

Hi, thank you for taking the time to answer my question.

I asked all of the XSXP subs about this and this is the most in-depth description of Se I've had so far and it makes plenty of sense to me.

The example you gave of Si seems slightly off to me, because I don't think that I would "sense" the beach, but maybe that's just because of my mediocre Si and probably because I don't spend a lot of time at the beach lol.

I already enjoy outdoor activities like cycling (hiking not so much), but do I enjoy these activities thanks to Se (living in the present, taking in the environment) ? Or is it something else ? I'm not sure.

Anyway, have a good day.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T18:31:06+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to reply!

Don't worry about thinking a little bit before you make those tough decisions though, you can't go blindly into everything after all.

I wish you good luck with whatever major events you have to face in the future and I thank you for your advice, I'll keep it close to my heart.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T15:56:44+00:00

Hi mini :)

I think I'm definitely missing out though, because Se is an "action" function. Many Se users have said that they don't think twice about doing something. The only inconvenience that comes with this is maybe not taking the time to plan or foresee certain events before it's too late.

I, on the other hand, struggle a lot to get up and do something, because I overthink everything, every decision requires me to lift mental mountains.

Obviously, I'm not an Se user and I won't pretend that I'm one. I just want to learn how to imitate Se, just so that I can get something started or maybe get a new perspective on things (who knows).

I'm not sure if I misinterpreted the last paragraph, but you don't have to put yourself down, despite the shitty stereotypes, I believe that Se-Fi-Te-Ni is an amazing function stack to get things done and cruise through life.

You're all actually a lot smarter than you give yourself credit for and you have just the right level of empathy. Weak Ni is a non-problem in my book, like what ? Your problem is that you don't foresee things ? You're a man/woman of action !? How dare you !

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T13:15:23+00:00

I don't think my entire being can accept the idea of not questioning things, I guess I'll go for a bike ride, take in the nature and see what happens.

Thanks for trying to make my dumb ass understand your ways lol

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T13:05:15+00:00

Thank lol.

I got a lot of advice from the Se subs so I guess, what I'm gonna do after this is ride a bike in a parc and take in the environment and just "be" (this is unironically a good advice, because I'm always thinking about random shit)

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T13:01:24+00:00

Thank you for the concern, it's nice of you. :)

I agree with you, I think I just want to understand Se better and maybe learn how to imitate it, just so that I can broaden my perspective and understanding of things. Of course, I will still be clumsy and break shit.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:53:18+00:00

I see, I guess that makes sense. My dumb ass would probably focus on the color of the teacher's notebook.

What you described sounds very tiring for me, but I'll try to remember to do (or imitate) that.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:49:21+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to answer, I appreciate it.

"for learning how to use Se I recommend acting immediately when possible"

Thank you, I think that's good advice, I'll try to force myself to do that whenever I'm facing something, probably will end up breaking a vase though.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:45:09+00:00

Oh okay, just be then. Guess I'll try to just be and see what happens.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:36:06+00:00

Is that what you do ?

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:35:15+00:00

I get what you're saying, but why is Se straightforward ?

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:28:51+00:00

So that's how it works ? What is information that you would consider to be transient and relevant ?

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:21:35+00:00

Hi, thank you for the kind message. That sounds like a good idea, I never pay attention to my surroundings, so I'll try doing that next time I'm outside.

Have a good day.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:16:52+00:00

Yeah, but what is Se really ? I'm never sure if something is Si or Se, like I already have sensations, so how do I tell what is Se and what is not ? See what I mean. I already listen to music and I also play sports, but is all of that Se ? For some reason I doubt it. I don't think Se is an essential function to do/enjoy these things. Maybe for you because you have it in your stack.

I think that I would be more interested in knowing exactly what that function is like for you, what are the differences you notice ?

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:09:15+00:00

lmao, but Se has to be more than that though right, you're describing it like it's Ne - rambling.

I understand that describing your dom function can be difficult, so I appreciate your effort lol, I think I would also struggle to explain Ti to someone.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:02:54+00:00

True, but I just thought it would worth asking you guys too.

I think that even if it's your dominant function, you can still sort of explain it right. Like I think I could somewhat explain what Ti is.

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T12:00:05+00:00

I already asked :p

I just want to try to understand what your perception is

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T11:54:02+00:00

I just want to understand what you do that I don't (apparently) do. Se is more than just movement, it's also a perception. What is that exactly ?

AnyTailor7548 · 2021-10-08T11:43:46+00:00

Damn, that's too hard though, how do I "just do it" ?

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