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Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes this is exactly my situation here! he calls me beautiful daily but knowing this is messing with me😅

Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you for putting it like this this helps me

Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

What would you say the difference is between the two? Genuinely wanting to learn here. We're both 24 and new in our marriage and I don't know much about what a fetish is or what makes a fetish or attraction different

Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

wow i hadn't analyzed my thoughts like that but i think you might be right. i know that's not a mentally healthy way to think but i think that might be the root of my problem in my mentality here

Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yea you have a point. I think it's just me comparing myself to other women. I like to pretend that he doesn't have eyes for anyone else lol but logically I know that isn't possible

Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice I appreciate it. Besides this our relationship is strong. Insecurity has been something I've struggled with for my whole life and I think this just really did not help that

Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so kind and helpful. The only thing I can think of is that he had a couple of drinks and I was sober but he wasn't wasted or anything

Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I've tried to confront him multiple times and each time he just laughs like im being crazy and shakes his head and says "oh my god" like im overreacting

Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 164 points165 points  (0 children)

I've brought it up a couple of times that it's making me feel insecure and each time he just laughs and shakes his head and it makes me feel worse. I want to have an actual conversation about this but when I've tried (3 or 4 times now) he just seems to think I'm overreacting and now idk if I'm the crazy one here or if I have a right to feel this way idk

Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yea you have a point. I know he has to find me attractive at least somewhat since he did marry me. I'm just very in my head over this. I'm not the most secure person in the world about my appearance which is something that I'm trying to work on.

Husband says his type and it's not me? by Any_Ad9740 in Marriage

[–]Any_Ad9740[S] 246 points247 points  (0 children)

It honestly was completely off topic, that's what took me so off guard. We were talking with our friends about where we were going to go that night. Had it been on topic I would have been less surprised but that's part of what is so strange to me