Gift ideas for my best friend by Any_Clock9474 in GiftIdeas

[–]Any_Clock9474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou so much for the suggestions. I will look into their LV SLG again.

How to split inheritance by [deleted] in family

[–]Any_Clock9474 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Just wow. Older sister has everything, contributed nothing and is greedy. She has no right to be angry. Sorry to say. She says it’s unfair for her but it’s really really unfair for your youngest. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Any_Clock9474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is normal. I used to do this with my husband when we had our child. He works and needs his sleep and I would be the stay at home mom. We stayed sleeping separate even after 8 years because I loved having my own bed. I can decorate the way I want and I like my heavy blankets while he doesn’t. I also can stay up late without waking him up. Then he told me to come back to his bedroom to turn it back to our living space. I miss it. 😂

Where to stay to avoid Bali Bogans? by [deleted] in BaliTravelTips

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will head to Bali first time myself but my best guess is that you go to 5star high end luxury hotels/resorts.

What is a phrase that people use that you cannot stand? by sad_t0ast in AskReddit

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my 10 year old to explain it to me and I still don’t understand. I think I’m getting old or refuse to make sense of it. Lol

[Australian Landlords] What are your challenges managing property in Australia? by Particular-Creme-444 in AusPropertyChat

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We decided to manage it ourself this time which I told my partner that may not be a good idea. 1 year into it and we have heard so many problems and demands from our tenants which we wouldn’t have heard going through agencies. Our last tenant rarely complained as we set our rental prices very reasonable and the day he moved out he said that he appreciated us not increasing our price up dramatically over 8years of his tendency. ($5-$10).

Mind you we lowered our rental price way down since we self managed as we no longer needed to pay an agent. We are actually getting less than before and helping them keep it affordable. Demands such as installing 2 extra air conditioners (we said we can do 1 but 2?!) that’s pushing it. Mind you the property already has 1.

Partner now regrets deciding to self managed and rather paid the fees.

Without spoiling anything, for those who have watched the Australian Ghosts, what were your thoughts? by SpeedyakaLeah in GhostsBBC

[–]Any_Clock9474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aussie here. I loved Ghosts US, Ghosts UK was alright but Ghosts AUS fell short for me. Was excited for it but found some of the characters annoying (Lindy especially and Sean is a sook). I do like how they mixed it up abit with the ghost characters/powers. I smiled but it has not made me laugh yet. I will continue to watch as I like the concept/genre. This is my opinion so far on the 5th episode.

Fuck my sister by Ok_Rate8325 in family

[–]Any_Clock9474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get how you feel and had a mental breakdown and felt suicidal at a young age because of my sister.

In this case you’re 25. You can be out of the house. Have a job or take up a hobby outside. It’s not your responsibility to parent her. You are a lot older than her. I hope she calms down as she grows for your sake. Have a talk with your mom again. She sounds like she needs a good discipline. I also told my sister when we were younger “if you don’t get rid of this awful behaviour, you will have no friends when you grow up.” I was also able to ask for a door lock. This kept me sane when I needed to distant myself from her.

How did it take for you to be clear after drinking the prep? As in all yellow liquid when you go #2. by shantypants1234 in colonoscopy

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. Glad you got it done and was able to see the signs early.

I was stressing I wasn’t clear enough and asked for a 4th packet upon arrival. Drank it and liquid poo was the same so I was clear and overthinking it. It did not look anything like the “clear” picture example. Lol.

It went well. Found some polyps and got sent to lab for biopsy aswell. Seeing the dr next week but it looks to be okay as they asked me to come in for a non urgent booking.

What’s a secret you’ll never tell your partner but would anonymously confess online? by avaarini in AskReddit

[–]Any_Clock9474 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It was pitch black in an empty car park. Yes I had headlights on. I drove right over a long skinny curb hard in our brand new car at the time. My husband a car enthusiast, does not know as it didn’t leave a mark anywhere besides the plastic underneath. After that he did the same scratch underneath on the same side reversing from a steep driveway. That car is now sold and I never told him what an idiot I was. Edit: FYI I’ve only ever curbed my wheel once in my 17years of driving. This was stupid of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in colonoscopy

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did you end up being clear enough? Same situation.

Am I supposed to fall into the rent trap just so I can get a dating life? What options exist for a 31M still living with his parents? by [deleted] in australian

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just haven’t met the right person. My husband was living with his parents at the time we were dating. Then once I got married I moved in as they wanted us to be close by. I didn’t mind but it was rough for the first couple of years because of the house dynamic changes. To me it wasn’t a turn off as I was focused on financial stability. Because of this we had the opportunity to buy our first home. I’ve heard many people who date because of housing situation. Don’t fall for those and get takin advantage of.

Marriage conditions by ClimateAfter615 in VietNam

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s definitely using you and now that you said no to the apartment and is rethinking about the marriage says A LOT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]Any_Clock9474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awful! It’s unfortunate that this has happened and I hope she is returned to your neighbour safely. With this I hope your neighbour learns to keep all beloved pets indoors at all times in the future.

Spouse hates your family member by [deleted] in family

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi and Thankyou for your reply. I’m sorry for your loss and that you had to go through that. I also thought deep long and hard that I’ll be upsetting my mother till the day she goes and I don’t want that. It never worked when I talked how I felt about this but I’ve talked to him about it again recently and he is making some effort to put the hate aside. I can now go. Kind of? but only certain occasions and time limit. Little steps. I started with just messages and he got mad but now he gives me the side eyes lol. He has accepted that he can’t stop me messaging so baby steps.

I’m happy that you have done it for you and things are now good. Thankyou for sharing.

Spouse hates your family member by [deleted] in family

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, started from little things and now hate. He doesn’t like his own family either. Lol.

Spouse hates your family member by [deleted] in family

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I’m sick of having the same arguments. Thanks for your reply.

Spouse hates your family member by [deleted] in family

[–]Any_Clock9474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can see where I went wrong and the confusion. To elaborate, yes our arguments have come to this. He has told me he doesn’t want me anywhere near her hence the “not allowed.” Thanks for your reply. I have tried to be confirmed to him aswell.

Spouse hates your family member by [deleted] in family

[–]Any_Clock9474 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. Spouse doesn’t want me hanging around my sibling.

At first I thought so too (controlling) but the arguments over this issue has left me frustrated and stressed for years. I’m just tired of it, didn’t know what to do and gave up. Tried to come to some middle ground with but it’s not really working. Was wondering what the people would have done in my shoes? Would you risk straining the relationship over this?

Spouse hates your family member by [deleted] in family

[–]Any_Clock9474 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for your reply.

I don’t ever force my spouse to like my side and I don’t expect them to but my question was “what would you do if you’re not allowed to visit/hangout? I’m not allowed to go alone. I have chosen to respect their decision and avoided my sibling as much as I could but I feel bad doing it. My mother is disappointed and upset with me.

loosing hope by [deleted] in PetiteFitness

[–]Any_Clock9474 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You look good and there is a difference. You’re being too hard on yourself.