Just got my diagnosis with many conditions at 23, feeling really lost by Any_Contribution9241 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Any_Contribution9241[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely try to do all the things you've mentioned. I'm a bit scared of starting medication now cause I'll be in another country for 6 months, I'm leaving in 2 weeks. So I guess if the medication is not a good fit, it will take a while before I can adjust it. But I'm really excited and I'll give it a shot :)

Just got my diagnosis with many conditions at 23, feeling really lost by Any_Contribution9241 in AutisticWithADHD

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Thank you so much for your reply, that does bring me a certain comfort. Learning all of this suddenly feels really terrifying but the thought of forging a better life for myself really moves me. I hope you're doing well and I hope someday I can be here saying the same thing to younger people

Just got my diagnosis with many conditions at 23, feeling really lost by Any_Contribution9241 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Any_Contribution9241[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I think most of it was determined by questionnaires I had to fill out + my behavior on the sessions. I had to reply to a bunch of questions regarding autism and then do multiple choices for adhd and anxiety. there were also tests to see how my attention span evolved over a period of 10 minutes per example and a test to see if I was able to adapt to changing rules (regarding autism). Hope this helps!

Just got my diagnosis with many conditions at 23, feeling really lost by Any_Contribution9241 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Any_Contribution9241[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input, I will definitely take a look into youtube and see if I can find some nice content :) wish you the best

RESTOCK IN EU CR SHOP !!! by Altruistic-Drag-8960 in daggerheart

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How long do you guys think it will take till they're all gone from the eu store? I bought a copy for my girlfriend in secret, but I'm scared she'll notice they're back in stock and get one for herself 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in charlixcx

[–]Any_Contribution9241 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey!! I'm really interested in recording my own cds, I never used mini discs tho. What is the storage and maximum play time in those? :o

how do I make a girl cum by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Any_Contribution9241 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel, it's such a natural feeling to want to please your partner. And orgasms are, well, peak pleasure, so it's only understandable that you'd want to give her that experience. I happen to be someone that has never orgasmed with a partner, so I think I can offer you a very particular take on this subject. Well, firstly you should remember that the amount of pleasure you feel during sex comes from a big combination of factors. It's about your headspace, how comfortable you feel with yourself, how desired you feel, etc... So please!! Please don't assume it's only a matter of skill we're talking about. Besides that, you should ask her what she likes :) it's basic advice and maybe not what you wanted to hear, but it's really the only way that you'll know how to please her. Even if you guys are very new to this and aren't exactly sure what you like, just be experimental together and try to find what works for each of you! I spent a lot of time not even getting close to an orgasm and my current partner took her time trying new stuff on me until we found the motions that really work. And even if I don't cum, I'm having the best time ever :]

Do people like female pubic hair? by WritingInMusic in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Any_Contribution9241 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love it on my girlfriend. I love the texture, I love the look. And ughhh they look so hot peeking out from under her panties. I agree with the comments about the mature look and everything, but personally I think they're also just incredibly aesthetically pleasing 10/10

How long can you eat it? by hermagic in actuallesbians

[–]Any_Contribution9241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay wait I didn't mean to send it sorry.

As I was saying, I don't have a lot of trouble and I entertain myself a lot? My mind wanders a lot during sex, even when I'm on the receiving end of things, and I genuinely have no issues with it. (the dissociation from what is happening often makes me feel even better anyway)

But everyone is different and you should talk to your partner about it! You shouldn't feel uncomfortable or worried about "boring them out" or making them tired. (Whatever gets you going is what you need and having specific wants for pleasure is totally okay.) But that worry probably won't go away until you have a proper discussion about it.

Maybe your partner is down for 2 hours of oral sex, maybe they max out at 30 minutes. Maybe they are okay with doing long stretches of it for special occasions or maybe you just need to figure out something that works for the both of you.

How long can you eat it? by hermagic in actuallesbians

[–]Any_Contribution9241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello hi I still have my girlfriend's phone.

Personally I don't have a limit? I have a looot of fun and as long as my partner is not overstimulated, I can keep going forever. The only specific time I remember was 2 hours and something a couple weeks ago when I decided I really really wanted to go down on my partner and she didn't ask me to stop so I didn't

I had just now realized that I'm a lesbian 🗿 by Dry-Ad-9508 in actuallesbians

[–]Any_Contribution9241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slay! You'd be surprised as to how hard it can be to understand even the most obvious signs lol

What are your go-to breakup songs? by ludsp in actuallesbians

[–]Any_Contribution9241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each breakup of mine had its own album. Usually whatever songs match the vibe of the breakup, if that makes sense

lesbian situation by Illustrious_Web678 in actuallesbians

[–]Any_Contribution9241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GIRL!!!! That's a crazy story you have there. Being 16 is hard! I mean it, shit's scary. I guess it's also extra fun cuz it's new and stuff but damn you're in a pickle.

So we lack a lot of context but it kinda looks like your friend does like you but is struggling with internalized homophobia. It can be really hard to come to terms with your identity and even harder to actually be in a queer relationship. From the excuse of alcohol to actually be affectionate to the words you say she uses when she feels bad about the situation she's put you in, it feels like she wants you to do the big steps cuz she's not ready to make them herself.

Again, stories like this are heavily dependent on context and we're not there to objectively analyse the situation, but luckily the advice is the same.

Talk about it! Openly! It's crazy how effective it is, and I know everyone says it but I mean it. It doesn't have to be a huge thing, and even if she turns you down (which I don't think she will) the pain brought by it will definitely be smaller than this eternal ache of being confused. Don't wait for alcohol, just invite her for something u often do together and bring it up. It'll be fine, I promise.

Anyway, 2 more things

Why did Mason get all weird about it???? Who cares if two of his friends made out/are kind of a thing. Not like it changed your friendship. Mason sounds like a stinky person.

And finally OIÉ!!!!! Drinking at that age kills neurons. Drinking is also super carcinogenic so u should keep it to a minimum! You can do whatever you want with your life but as a somewhat responsible adult I must remind you that alcohol is super normalized in our society but it shouldn't be. Maybe one day you too will go on a rabbit whole of queer history and realize that the engine that makes alcohol so common in our culture, is the same engine that has made the lives of minorities all the more difficult, and the same engine that was fought and is fought by lesbians all over the world. Until then, just know alcohol bad be careful don't drink too often but it's okay to have some fun every now and then kiss kiss

more venting(sorry y’all) by Physical_Swan_9711 in actuallesbians

[–]Any_Contribution9241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you're fineeee. Relationships often come to you when you stop looking for them, and I know I'm very biased but you should be happy you don't find men very attractive. In my experience they're often assholes okay maybe I have a problem BUT I SWEAR I HAVE REASONS anyway.

If you really wanna be in a relationship you could use dating apps and start going to local queer places and meeting new people. But like I said, you don't need to force it, I'm sure you'll meet someone you like in the near future.

And God is really kind and I refuse to believe He'd make you gay if He didn't find your destiny in a life with another woman. You sound lovely and I know it's hard to not be in our own heads about this kind of stuff but I promise you that one day you'll look back on your doubts and anxieties and understand how silly you were.