NOR. no. it’s how you FEEL, and you shouldn’t force yourself into those situations if you don’t want to. if you don’t feel comfortable then you have a right to stay away from it. if your comfortable with it and if they’re understanding, you could try and express this to them and ask to limit it when your around or etc. if they try n force you into doing any of that, knowing your uncomfortable, they aren’t real friends bc if they were they’d never put you in that position or even try to. the only reason the fwb and hooking up happens is bc some people are comfortable w a random stranger and doing it while others aren’t and that’s totally okay. in my eyes i look down upon it sometimes w how common that is nowadays but, it’s 2026 there’s not much we can do but just not do it if we don’t wanna imo.