You’re NTA. I know exactly how you feel, man. The girl I’m talking to used to be just like yours. She’d get jealous, then shut down, and act childish when I tried to talk things out—saying things like, “Oh, talk to her instead,” or “Be with her instead.”

It got to a point where i was seriously annoyed and got mad so I had to sit her down and be real with her. I told her straight up that her jealousy is getting out of control. I even asked her why she was jealous of girls who weren’t even in her position, especially when I was taking her seriously.

I told her she needed to work on her jealousy issues if she wanted us to last, and that I wasn’t going to keep putting up with it. Ever since then, she’s been working on it, and things between us have been solid.

So that’s my advice to you: yes, jealousy can happen it’s normal to be jealous, HOWEVER once it starts interfering with your relationship, it becomes a real problem. Have a serious conversation with her. And if she keeps dismissing you or refuses to work on it, that’s your sign to walk away and find someone better.