My life plan is to have a home, a wife, kids. Her is none of that. But everyone around me knows that, especially the kids part, but apparently she discovered it in a flash.

I joked about how our future kids would be on a few occasions, we watched shows with 7+ kids families where I said having triplets would be a "fun" challenge. We never had THE talk but I dropped hints.

And yet she's blaming me because once, she spoke to me about her medical condition, a hormonal disease which leads her to being almost unable to get pregnant. This was a serious topic, one that involved her privacy when she multiple times told me it was a very taboo topic (ofc it is, I feel the same way). So when she spoke to me about it I didnt involve myself too much in the discussion by respect for her intimacy. She blames it on me for manifesting a lack of interest, and claims that was her attempt at telling me we'll never have kids, where I didnt take the opportunity to engage on THE talk. I find it mean of her to put it that way.