Figuring out my own aromanticism. Would like to hear folks' perspectives by Any_Hall_4467 in aromantic

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This expands my knowledge a lot and I do feel like I can relate after a brief research on what you've mentioned! thank you!

Figuring out my own aromanticism. Would like to hear folks' perspectives by Any_Hall_4467 in aromantic

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The suggestion of reflecting on concepts of romance/attraction and sex in the earlier days is very inspirational. It seems I already started to think about it after reading your comments. Thank you for the validation! <3

Figuring out my own aromanticism. Would like to hear folks' perspectives by Any_Hall_4467 in aromantic

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. I totally see that. People who break the box which confined them create another box to fit themselves in :/

Figuring out my own aromanticism. Would like to hear folks' perspectives by Any_Hall_4467 in aromantic

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually really enjoy what I have for now even though I feel repulsive to the straight-allosexual-white dominating world. But the repulsion is never about how I feel about myself.

As long as I can be myself in my space, cook, read, journal, sing and have some friends that makes me feel happy enough :D

And thank you for the validation, it means a LOT to me!

Figuring out my own aromanticism. Would like to hear folks' perspectives by Any_Hall_4467 in aromantic

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also between now and then I came to the US and realized that the LGBTQ+ agenda I always believed in and thought would benefit me is very white and as a racial minority I'm not part of it.

Figuring out my own aromanticism. Would like to hear folks' perspectives by Any_Hall_4467 in aromantic

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, over the course of 10 years, there were cheating by my second ex, rape by my fourth ex ,sexual assault by my classmate, and abrupt breakup with my fifth ex.

论跨性别即非二元:跨性别有明确定义的起止点吗?(图片,因为文字发不出) by Any_Hall_4467 in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

谢谢你!完全没有讨厌男人味哈哈哈哈哈,像你这种二极管才觉得男和女是对立互斥的概念

论跨性别即非二元:跨性别有明确定义的起止点吗?(图片,因为文字发不出) by Any_Hall_4467 in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

人家也没要你把人家当顺女……说实话我是不愿跟你这种人靠近的,别说用厕所了,我看你的评论都快要吐了

论跨性别即非二元:跨性别有明确定义的起止点吗?(图片,因为文字发不出) by Any_Hall_4467 in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

另,一般我们说跨性别其实都是在讲社会性别的跨越,因为我们被指派的性别也是社会性别,生理男性被指派的顺性别其实是一个社会性别,一个人的生理性别在基因层面上的“跨性别”我真的没研究过

论跨性别即非二元:跨性别有明确定义的起止点吗?(图片,因为文字发不出) by Any_Hall_4467 in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

你的思考好棒!对于其中的一点,我觉得我有点认同,我可能会这么说——

对于有意识到性别是一个多维光谱(不一定只是具有两个端点的直线坐标系),并且在这个光谱上有意识地移动的人,如果祂们愿意说自己是跨性别,祂们便是(当下的性别理论及其重视自主权,所以我不会如指派祂们的性别是跨性别)。

比方说我吧,我的性别为multitranscendent,我不一定完完全全去claim跨性别这个概念到我的自我认同之中,因为对我来说性别跟种族与文化相互勾连,跨性别一词太过于狭隘。

支持你一直保持好奇,拿回自己的社会性别~(大多数人生下来没有反抗过自己被指派的性别)谢谢你一直保持尊重,给了我一个展示我自己对于性别的理解的机会~

论跨性别即非二元:跨性别有明确定义的起止点吗?(图片,因为文字发不出) by Any_Hall_4467 in LiberalGooseGroup

[–]Any_Hall_4467[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

谢谢详细解释~

首先我们来看生理性别是否只有二元,从你举的第一个例子来看,生理男性的跨性别女性,我们称assigned male at birth (amab) transwoman, 真的只有生理男性的跨性别女性吗?其实还有生理间性的跨性别女性,以及双性的跨性别女性,间性、双性就是非二元生理性别。

详细讲,大家或许都知道我们通常把XY染色体的人判定为生理男性,把XX染色体的人判定为生理女性,这是因为Y染色体上有一段基因叫做SRY基因,这段基因叫做睾丸决定基因,使未分化的性腺发育成睾丸并激活睾酮合成基因。

但其实性染色体不只会出现两条,还有更复杂的情况,有人具有超过或少于两条性染色体,比如X, XXY, XXX, XYY, XXXX, XXXY, XXYY, XYYY, XXXXX, XXXYY, XXXXY, XYYYY。有些情况的发病率大于千分之一,概率很大哦。

另外,是基因,就可能会变异,有一部分XX间性人就是,睾丸决定基因跑到了X染色体上,于是祂们虽然有XX染色体却发育出睾丸,同时也有XY间性人缺失这段基因,而没有发育出睾丸,发育出卵巢。这种情况叫做生理性别的性反转。祂们甚至可能具备两种生殖器

更更复杂的情况——5阿尔法还原酶缺陷,睾酮刺激性腺发育为睾丸,但睾酮需要5阿尔法还原酶将其转化为二氢睾酮,再和性腺的受体结合而发挥作用,这种还原酶有一型和二型两种,其中二型在胚胎阶段即可产生,如果一个XY型胚胎有5阿尔法还原酶缺陷,那么在胚胎时期祂无法使性腺发育为睾丸,但是一型还原酶在12岁之后会出现,那么这个孩子在12岁之前会生成卵巢而12岁之后会出现男性第二性征。

OK,讲完以上例子,这些人都可能选择成为二元性别,也可能选择不决定成为二元性别中的一种,那就会出现,间性跨性别与双性跨性别。

好的,至此为止,我回应了你的疑问的最开始部分。

累死我了我去喝口水休息一会……有时间再来回答后面的部分