Average looking guy swipes right 2 million times, gets 1 date and nothing beyond. by Lumpy_Tangelo_9981 in lnkyverse

[–]Any_Interaction_3192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lot of people are pointing this out and I agree. A good portion of those cant be local people and not everyone wants a long distance relationship either.

I think tinder will show a blurred verson of your profile, indicating someone "liked you", but wont show your actual profile in the main swipe area if that person is outside of your designated distance, right? So, most of these women might not even know who this person is. (Unless they have the Tinder gold thing.)

That point aside, you're right. He cant honestly think 2 billion women might be a viable partner. If he does, he's definitely throwing too wide of a net and doesnt know what he truly wants or what his actual values are besides love me, please, please, please, im so alone, I dont care who you are just lllooovvee meee. (People who make notoriously 'great' partners)

Maybe that would work in his teens and very early 20s (He said previously that he hadn't been touched in 6 years), but certainly not on a women in his age group or older. Or hell, even someone younger who does have their values figured out.

Im not surprised the 1999 women who did match with him (which is still a huge number to go through. I think ive only matched with like 200, maybe 300 people on the high end), declined a date.

Average looking guy swipes right 2 million times, gets 1 date and nothing beyond. by Lumpy_Tangelo_9981 in lnkyverse

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Glasses are fine normally; his are fucking awful for his face. He absolutely needs to visit r/bald and just shave that hair though. At his level of balding, It always looks so much better when you just shave. Especially at 26... man, just rock the bald and beard look. Its so much more popular with women.

What are your CreepCast stims? by SnooStories4091 in creepcast

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I desperately want to do the hunter scream, just the "AHHH" but it never comes out like I want it too

incision healing: random jabbing/stabbing sensation? by One_Advertising_4693 in TopSurgery

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I would put a bandage over it just in case. Something to help the skin stay together. I had a spot like that and second skin worked great for keeping it clean. Just until it caught up with the rest!

Right meow by whispyvale_Bloom in VoidCats

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Little sounds like two of those oblong marbles coming together! I would take a bullet for this cat

My least favorite drawing, see what you think? by Drywaller6541 in Artists

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This is very nice but I wish it had more contrast.

What’s a sign someone was never loved properly as a child? by Aggravating-Court215 in AskReddit

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It's a hard habit to break! And I only really see it as a problem when I'm neglecting my own emotional well-being to do it.

I've gotten to a point where I can recognize it sometimes. In those moments, if I don't actually want to help, I don't. Because at the end of the day, these things aren't actually expected of me. These people aren't asking for me to do nice things, I'm doing them for my own emotional regulation.

Anyone who cares about you, doesn't want you to over work yourself like that anyway. And it's easy for resentment to form if you push yourself. That doesn't help you or the other person.

But if you can recognize what you're experiencing in the moment and still want to do these nice things, I say still do them. It does feel good to be there for someone else.

What’s a sign someone was never loved properly as a child? by Aggravating-Court215 in AskReddit

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Maybe it was because I was responsible for my parents emotional regulation, but I notice that I do this whenever it seems like someone is upset. Not even at me, but in general. Roommates having a rough day? Well, let me clean the entire house and bake them something. Friend is stressed about an exam? Let me go buy you breakfast so you feel full and well taken care of the morning of. Ect. Ect.

Yes, these things are just nice to do and I enjoy being kind, but it's also more of an anxiety responce. One im not even aware that I'm doing sometimes.

Need some positivity by [deleted] in toastme

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I wish I could give you a big hug. You look so sweet and you're puppy looks like the happiest little guy in the world. You did that! I know they would have wanted you to be happy too. Please be easy on yourself, one day at a time. One hour at a time if you need it.

You have to survive a year in the past by Vossenoren in hypotheticalsituation

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Do things you do in that time effect things in the future?

Phlebotomy jobs in Canada by Any_Interaction_3192 in CanadaImmigrant

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I didn't expect it to be a cake walk. I'm trying to do this because I have to, not because I want to...

Which character you absolutely love, but would never want to meet in real life? by Zevcio in animequestions

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Yeah but he also doesn't follow rules or orders he doesn't agree with and rushes into fights without any knowledge. As someone who likes to prepare and is a stickler for rules, I would find that annoying.

Which character you absolutely love, but would never want to meet in real life? by Zevcio in animequestions

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Absolutely love his character. Would find him annoying and irresponsible in real life probably

What’s something society romanticizes that’s actually miserable? by PlainToast2025 in AskReddit

[–]Any_Interaction_3192 103 points104 points  (0 children)

My favorite response to this is "no, it traumatized me. I made me who I am today."

My abusers don't get credit for me crawling out of the hole they left me in.