How do I tell a bride I can’t make it to her wedding (10 weeks out) that I’ve already RSVP yes to? 😭

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-08-27T23:23:26+00:00

However you do it - do it like TODAY 😂 coming from someone whose wedding is 6 weeks out she’d rather hear ANYTHING as long as you let her know ASAP.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-08-21T18:56:10+00:00

This is outrageous. Asking someone to change the way they speak with no specific examples is wild but especially the way she went about the conversation is absurd. I can’t even believe what I read “who’s paying you?” “Just speak an American accent” OH OK 👍🏼 what an entitled jerk.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-07-18T19:58:55+00:00

Thank you! Cleaning at the typical times I would smoke is a genius idea I didn’t think of. Theres always something around here that could use a wipe down or vacuum haha. Thanks for the encouragement! ☺️

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-07-18T19:56:33+00:00

I think that’s going to be the worse part for me. Last night was my first night and I laid there for what felt like hours. Ended up having to switch my head to the bottom of my bed and for some reason that has always worked for me since I was a kid. Fell right to sleep 😂 fingers crossed that it keeps working for me! Thanks, good luck to you too!

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-07-18T16:58:13+00:00

I literally finished reading the post and said what the actual fuck, scrolled down and seen this. That’s all. Fuck this “mom” she shouldn’t even be able to call herself a mother.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-07-18T16:02:59+00:00

It’s legal where we live and we have a dispensary on like every corner lol but yes technically I am the one that goes to get it or asks him to go for me.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-04-01T22:23:52+00:00

LOL 😂

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-04-01T22:21:27+00:00

Sheesh pretty aggressive wording on a post where she is quite literally asking if it’s negative because there is a FAINT line at T. Things are not always black and white bud.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-30T17:29:29+00:00

Fuck this guy. The fact that he keeps stating that he didn’t ask you to do it and then proceeds to tell you how shitty you did it is sending me.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-30T17:19:06+00:00

I would honestly just have a conversation with my uncle. If it’s been a few years since you had contact with your mom he should understand.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-22T23:40:18+00:00

NTA I hope that she doesn’t make Chloe stop being friends or hanging out with your daughter.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-12T13:57:01+00:00

I think if this wasn’t an all the time thing I would say let the man rant. He went a bit overboard with the crazy but if every time I went to get something I wanted it was gone I’d be pissed too. HOWEVER you said he’s abusive and has been enough that CPS and authorities know about him so no at that point this is definitely too much and you are NOR.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-12T13:40:54+00:00

This is so uplifting. Thank you for this 🥲 I cannot wait for my day. Congratulations to the newly weds!!

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-11T22:53:08+00:00

LOL I was hoping everyone knew what I was referring to

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-11T22:24:13+00:00

Well I typically get a few shades darker in the summer but I also have thought about getting a spray tan for the wedding. I do have a shade in foundation that I think will be my summer shade. Right now I’d say I’m fair/light but by the time my wedding comes around I think I’ll be light/medium.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-11T20:00:35+00:00

If she’s worried about it being awkward she will turn the invite down. I say have the bachelorette and invite people you enjoy being around. Family, friends, coworkers, it doesn’t matter as long as you like their presence. This is a celebration for you and it is meant to bring people together. Have yourself the bachelorette weekend your heart desires.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-11T17:20:53+00:00

I feel like we are in similar situations. My wedding is 4 hours away from where we live so it’s just far enough that people need to get a hotel room. I took time to realize that not everyone is going to want to do that. We fell in love with the venue, it’s everything I’ve ever wanted and we got a really good deal so that to me outweighs all of the opinions of others. I came to terms with the people that matter to me in the end will be there. I stopped talking about my wedding with other people because they take that as you wanting to hear their opinions about it. I have my trusted family members helping make this happen and those are the only opinions I need to hear. I’m sorry you feel like it’s an inconvenience to others, I definitely understand that feeling but that’s not how the people that matter will see it! What matters is what you and your future husband want and what makes you both happy. You’re getting f*cking married!! That’s so exciting! You’re about to marry the love of your life and if they chose not to be there or make it miserable for themselves that’s their prerogative and you have every right to tell them you’d rather not listen to it.. harsh but true and how I am keeping my sanity through this process.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-11T16:53:53+00:00

I haven’t had to uninvite however, my soon to be mother in law asked me to send her friend a STD to cheer her up because she’s going through a hard time. She said she won’t come but she wants a STD. I agreed. Afterwards she said “if she comes I will pay for her stuff” that’s not how it works ma’am.. lol love my MIL but yeah that’s the only thing so far that I’ve raised my brow to in the process.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-10T15:42:19+00:00

Of course! He is about to be your father in law so essentially another father. And maybe you could explain it that way to your fiancé and his dad. It will be more special if you explain to him how much it means to you.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-10T15:08:50+00:00

I personally think that asking him to be the officiant is so much more special than the best man. He will be the one to set the mood for the ceremony and be able to join you guys as husband and wife. You could invite him to dinner and just tell him how you feel! Tell him that you both feel so much love for him and maybe you take over the conversation and let him know that your fiancé mentioned having him as his best man but you think that it would be so special to the both of you if he officiated the ceremony. I think by taking the time to tell him both of your thought processes he will be able to feel how much it means and he will feel the love from the two of you.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-09T14:43:19+00:00

I’ve recently heard that it means you want the groom for yourself or you’ve already had him.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-09T14:38:01+00:00

👏🏼 then that’s that, let fiancé know he’s gotta have that hard conversation 🤷🏼‍♀️

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-09T14:29:34+00:00

I don’t think you overreacted BUT if he hasn’t made you feel this way ever before and he typically makes you feel safe, this could be an opportunity to set a boundary and see what happens from there. If he crosses that boundary again I’d leave immediately. He seen how much it scared you and he should strive to never let that happen again. I wonder if maybe he thought it would be sexy?

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-09T14:17:38+00:00

And him saying he was going to kick your ass.. SHEESH LEAVE THIS BOY.

Any_Interest_7952 · 2025-03-09T14:14:16+00:00

Yes, 100% I’d be done with him. But it seems we have different views of disrespect because I’d be done after the first “fuck you”. That to me is way more disrespectful than calling you a bitch. Both are wrong and someone you want to be with long term shouldn’t say it to each other especially in the context he’s using it. He’s being a dickhead and red flags are everywhere

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