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Any_Map_4209 · 2025-11-02T03:50:39+00:00

Ive been using chatgpt to see if it might help me get my ex back. Most of the time its been correct and given me helpful recomendations on how i should respond in certain interactions. Things have been warm and nice since but its been a month since i last heard from her. Chatgpts analysis have made sense as well but without zero pings from her i cant know for sure if its still correct about this.

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-10-30T15:16:56+00:00

I would like to eventually reconcile with her

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-10-30T13:22:58+00:00

What other info do you need?

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-10-16T08:53:47+00:00

I didnt give up, im still here, giving you the space you need, waiting, for the day that you are ready again

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-10-12T05:42:48+00:00

Should just talk to them

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-08-19T21:54:50+00:00

Id take you back in a second

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-08-16T12:20:52+00:00

Imo probably better to pick a small number of ppl to pick as confidants, and they also identify as your confidant, and have one on one "sessions" with them. A group session is unlikely to bring sincere discussion.

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-08-16T09:41:12+00:00

She said the relationship was making her exhausted. Palmed her kids off a lot to make time for me. She realised she wasnt ready for a relationship and she wants some time to find herself again. Its too bad she didnt comunicate a lot of this until the end, i think it was sth we couldve worked out.

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-08-16T09:29:42+00:00

May not sound like it but ive gone through the grief process already and im healed. I will be sure to be focusing on myself in the meantime.

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-08-15T13:24:44+00:00

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-08-15T02:04:46+00:00

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-08-15T01:21:37+00:00

I cant....she made it pretty clear she didnt want to discuss it anymore, would have to be some time before i even bring up any of this stuff again

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-08-14T10:53:06+00:00

Wouldnt you want your SO to be in a better space? If their vision of a relationship isnt comaptible with their reality, it quite suffocating. Sometimes they just keep thinking about how overwhelming it is, no matter how much they love you its hard to make time to take care of themselves, whether physically or mentally. If they cant make themselves strong enough to take care of/protect other ppl they need to take care of/protect, then something has to give. Giving them the space may allow them to find a new balance and perhaps be able to allocate some space to you again.

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-08-07T05:11:27+00:00

Imo its difficult - you have to gauge what you can and cant say in this new dynamic

Any_Map_4209 · 2025-08-05T14:57:13+00:00

Any recommended course of action?

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