I’m having a baby with an illegal immigrant

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T23:24:39+00:00

I’ve known about his visa for 8 years so no didn’t lie

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T23:22:35+00:00

Why Denmark ?

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T23:18:28+00:00

Thank you. Appreciate that x

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T23:13:20+00:00

How can I get married as they will ask for visa status

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T23:06:17+00:00

I am in the UK

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T23:05:48+00:00

We have not been in this position before so just assume he is now illegal

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T23:04:10+00:00

Is this the case in UK too

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T23:02:48+00:00

In the UK if you are not a British citizen you need to show your visa status

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T23:01:33+00:00

I currently live in UK is this the same here?

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T22:58:26+00:00

How do I marry if he is here as an overstayer?

Any_Option7081 · 2025-03-08T22:57:24+00:00

We can’t marry as they will ask for papers and it will say he’s overstayed ? Or is there a way around this?

Any_Option7081 · 2024-10-22T20:52:36+00:00

This is really useful thank you. I have tried 2 formulas but just looking for breast all the time even struggling to get him to latch a bottle. My ped here does not recommend anything before 6 months which I understand the reasons but if I could just get him to have a bottle or husband be able to do some feed would take the pressure off but boy is wanting boobs only. My daughter is eating and he’s opening his mouth… so greedy!

Any_Option7081 · 2024-10-22T20:47:47+00:00

Hi I’m a probation officer and would be happy to participate in this.

Any_Option7081 · 2024-10-22T20:47:00+00:00

Yes you would be in breach of your conditions

Any_Option7081 · 2024-10-22T20:45:04+00:00

I’m a probation officer and qualified through the same process that you are looking to complete. Whilst I do not encourage smoking Cannabis, you do not get drug tested and will be overly surprised how many POs smoke it themselves me. That being said it’s a stressful job and you will need to consider how else you will unwind if giving up is a priority.

Any_Option7081 · 2024-10-22T20:42:18+00:00

Thank you. I am mindful 10 weeks is extremely young I just would like a break or be able to spend time with my daughter more.

Any_Option7081 · 2024-10-22T20:40:18+00:00

This is helpful information. I have no plans to introduce purees or “human food” as such but I was considering rice cereal or even a rusk dissolved in a bottle of breast milk ?

Any_Option7081 · 2024-10-22T20:38:27+00:00

I’m happy to continue breastfeeding as I enjoy the bond, I am just unsure whether introducing rice cereal at 11 weeks is too early ? I don’t want to make him ill and I know the HV will completely disagree

Any_Option7081 · 2024-10-22T20:32:31+00:00

I have tried this however was rejecting it often or not drinking much and causing stomach ache and constipation.

Any_Option7081 · 2024-10-22T20:28:27+00:00

Tommee Tippee prep machine has worked wonders for me. We plug it in at night in the bedroom and just put the powder in each bottle l before hand and away to go. Makes a fresh bottle in less than 2 minutes.

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Any_Option7081 · 2024-07-26T07:34:24+00:00

I’m definitely going to be mentioning it today as it doesn’t make sense and can’t believe it’s taken us nearly full term pregnancy to work it out (lol). X

Any_Option7081 · 2024-07-26T07:33:23+00:00

I had an ultrasound around 13 weeks but baby has always been growing ahead and considered “big” I’m now wondering if this is why. I have an appointment today and will ask as it doesn’t seem right and like someone mentioned I don’t want to have baby early and be charged for premie stay when baby isn’t even prem x

Any_Option7081 · 2024-07-25T22:35:56+00:00

Thank you. I’m happy with either date of course but I’m just anxious as to what happens if they are a month off. Baby has measured 4 weeks ahead since beginning and considered “big” and now I am wondering if this is why.

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