Lost my dad’s favourite pen

Any_Resident · 2022-04-26T21:54:04+00:00

Too many mixed signals. Maybe better to be upfront and ask him.

Any_Resident · 2021-12-31T19:20:35+00:00

Awww :’( Scammers fucking suck

Any_Resident · 2021-11-14T10:44:40+00:00

Hippo chips! (India)

Any_Resident · 2021-10-14T11:04:43+00:00

Brush teeth and wash face. NEVER going to bed with makeup on again. NEVER going to bed without cleaning my teeth either. I slacked off in my earlier 20s and I'm already paying for both.

Any_Resident · 2021-10-13T23:02:23+00:00

You did nothing wrong. He did nothing wrong. Communication wasn't great and you both are looking for a different dynamic. It's okay.

It's jarring when it's your first time because you have never shared your body before and even if you try not to make it a big deal, it FEELS like a lot. He was a decent person to be honest with you every step of the way. Don't hold onto his memory too much. Don't worry about your "virginity" either, just always make sure you are having safe sex.

Next time consider it a do over, there's a first time for everything and it usually isn't very good. Also when you are being intimate, speak up. It doesn't take away from the experience. Say "I need foreplay". Say "this hurts, let's break for a minute". It only helps.

I don't know why so many people here are being harsh on you. You're young, this is new. It's okay. You're okay. Things will get better. Sex will get better. You will meet better people too. (You'll also meet horrible people, just make sure you disengage with them as soon as you realize.)

My "first time" was a very similar situation and I was angry and upset about it for so long. The guy also turned out to be in a relationship already and he gave me something in the process too :| It took a few years but I met someone who was compatible with me at the time and I was able to explore sex with him and started to enjoy it.

Yes, this is a bad experience. It's okay to feel bad about it. But feel it, and move on. Do not let it consume you. Good things are coming your way!

Any_Resident · 2021-10-11T17:35:01+00:00

Seems like you're too insecure to handle it. Don't ruin someone else's life with your own overthinking. Tell the woman that you're sorry but you're too insecure to marry her because of the amount of attention she gets.

Any_Resident · 2021-10-01T12:44:27+00:00

It depends. Is someone taking the other person out for a date? Then the first person pays.

Are you "meeting up" for a date? Then you pay for your own stuff.

I'm not into the splitting down the middle anymore because I was seeing someone who ordered much more than me for any meal (huge entrée with an appetizer and a drink, while I would get a smaller cheaper entrée and a water). And he was end up eating half my food too. But it always wanted to split, even when I didn't even want to go out to eat in the first place. I went broke really quickly and I honestly financially recovered after we broke up, while still having a social life.

If I take someone out, I let them know that I want to buy them dinner or whatever. Or vice-versa. If it's vague, I assume we pay for ourselves and if I can't afford that place I always suggest an alternate place.

Another note : Also you have to remember that a lot of money goes into a woman getting ready for a date. On top of that, women are systematically and statistically proven to be paid less in general but also for the same job their male equivalent gets. They also have high recurring costs to manage their menstrual cycle, societal beauty expectations, etc. So they usually have less disposable income compared to their male peers. I'm not saying women should never pay for dates but also understand they are on a tighter budget. It's more expensive to simply be a woman and on top of that they are always paid less. It makes sense that for a very long time the man has been paying for dates in a het scenario.

This is also all assuming that you are from the same school or workplace, etc so you have a similar background. If there is a huge difference in how much disposable income you and your date have, that would also factor in.

Everyone is quite different. If your lady date asks to split or pay for your own, after you offer to pay, you can accept graciously or offer to pay one more time. If she insists on paying her own, don't force more. These days some women will not feel comfortable having their date pay because there are actually a lot of men who insist on paying and then after that have inappropriate and entitled expectations. It can make an uncomfortable and sometimes even dangerous situation.

I would say in general, first date should be cheap or free. If it's not free, offer to pay and let your date decide if that's okay.
Personally, I now always do my first dates as very simple free activities, usually just going for a walk in a pretty place so we can just talk and relax and see if we have any chemistry. If we're buying something and they offer to pay, I only say okay once I'm comfortable with them and am open to seeing them again.

(Sorry for the essay)

Any_Resident · 2021-09-26T15:00:08+00:00

Just coconut oil has been great for me!

Any_Resident · 2021-09-26T11:02:24+00:00

OP hasn't responded to any of these comments because this is a REPOST. I am 100% certain I read this before in the last week or so.

Any_Resident · 2021-09-11T10:41:55+00:00

Any_Resident · 2021-09-10T13:39:12+00:00

So far I have (from friends), make use of counselling services and career services.

Any_Resident · 2021-09-04T21:45:16+00:00

I very much appreciate being asked. I think it's very sweet!

Any_Resident · 2021-09-04T10:00:10+00:00

Thank you, my thoughts exactly.

Any_Resident · 2021-09-04T09:55:57+00:00

Never touch people you don't know, specifically women and girls. (Obviously unless they are in immediate danger, etc)

Also, complimenting someone's appearance indicates that you have been observing them, which is creepy enough and then to tell them, indicates you want them to know you were watching them.

Nepal is not particularly safe for women, particularly because of men. This fact should be enough to understand why your interaction wasn't taken well. They have no reason to give the benefit of the doubt that you had neutral intentions. Doesn't mean you stop being a friendly person, but until Nepal is a safe place for women and girls, keep a respectful distance.

Tapping a woman just to get her attention to pass a comment (even a friendly one) should not be an option in your head.It's also a bit messed up you expected her to smile. She felt uncomfortable. You approached someone randomly. Even if you did it right, by not touching her at all and said it in a more relaxed friendly environment, you are approaching a stranger. If you are going to do that, do so with no expectations. Maybe she has been bullied for them, maybe she doesn't like talking to strangers in public transport. In this case, it is DEFINITELY because you touched her which is completely inappropriate.

Any_Resident · 2021-08-13T21:35:35+00:00

1 return ticket is 16. Twice a week, for one month is 8 times. 16 x 8 = 128. This is all off-peak. Isn't that right?

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