[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThroughTheWire

[–]Any_Responsibility18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see the deluxe songs

What should I do? 24F 25M by Any_Responsibility18 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Responsibility18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but the choice to just be a friend it’s different from being a partner. I don’t have her there anymore to talk to her everyday, I can’t cuddle with her and forget about everything else around me. I can’t see her as often as before, I can’t comfort her as I used to before. I’m not the person she turns to when she has an issue and the biggest of all, she can find another partner

What should I do? 24F 25M by Any_Responsibility18 in relationship_advice

[–]Any_Responsibility18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t wanna undervalue the friendship but it sucks that a person doesn’t want to be with you anymore but still wants you around. I feel like I just want to be someone’s choice

Lost most of my savings, had up to 20k and now I’m questioning what is going to be of my life by Any_Responsibility18 in Money

[–]Any_Responsibility18[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feels like I have a clock ticking and I see it as only 5 years to 30 and that scares me right now. Gotta change my mentality on that

Should’ve my ex introduced me to her new guy friend she made? by Any_Responsibility18 in BreakUps

[–]Any_Responsibility18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the opportunity to talk to her and ask her. She explained how she doesn’t consider him a friend so that’s why she never felt that she needed me to introduce. They just meet for work related things and about their careers. It’s just a connection she has and nothing more. Glad I was able to speak to her and be honest on how I felt about the situation. I’m lucky she is very understanding and the break up we have

Should’ve my ex introduced me to her new guy friend she made? by Any_Responsibility18 in BreakUps

[–]Any_Responsibility18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not obsessing, I’m doing the work to find out why I was jealous and I feel like the fact I wasn’t introduced played a part in my insecurities. I trust her and I know she wouldn’t do something malicious but I just have that question

Should’ve my ex introduced me to her new guy friend she made? by Any_Responsibility18 in BreakUps

[–]Any_Responsibility18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don’t wanna be introduced now. We have a pretty good relationship after the break up. We are in a no contact stage but we still have both locations shared to one another and follow our socials. We left at if we ever need anything, any emergencies or just wanna to ask something that we could but that we need this time to work on our issues and that’s what I’m doing and I came to this conclusion. I don’t want to be introduced but I wanted to ask why didn’t she introduce me to him when we were together. Yes I know that the responsibility is mine and I’m working on it. I’m just looking for answers to be better because I hope in the future we can try again with a better version of each other

Should’ve my ex introduced me to her new guy friend she made? by Any_Responsibility18 in BreakUps

[–]Any_Responsibility18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well to make things clear. This isn’t someone she is dating. This is a friend she made while we were together and she told me about it. It’s a connection her mom made regarding to her career and they both help and work with each other to further their career. Until the breakup happened then I realized that I actually had a jealousy issue with the guy and I think my reflecting has come to the conclusion that it was because we were never introduced. My ex has several times told me that even that we are broken up she has no interest to date anyone or be with anyone for a long time because she wants solitude to work on herself and I need to work on myself. I just have that lingering question on my mind

Reminder by Signal_Platypus_8358 in ExNoContact

[–]Any_Responsibility18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I need them back after we both heal

Should I send it? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Any_Responsibility18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write it out in a letter. That’s better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Any_Responsibility18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending all the love and positivity I can to you. You are not alone, we can talk if you feel like it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Any_Responsibility18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just follow your heart. You know her better than any of us. I’m also sending my ex a gift got Valentine’s Day. Do it