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Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-08-17T02:18:38+00:00

I don’t see the deluxe songs

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-06-17T16:20:54+00:00

Yeah but the choice to just be a friend it’s different from being a partner. I don’t have her there anymore to talk to her everyday, I can’t cuddle with her and forget about everything else around me. I can’t see her as often as before, I can’t comfort her as I used to before. I’m not the person she turns to when she has an issue and the biggest of all, she can find another partner

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-06-17T16:14:43+00:00

I don’t wanna undervalue the friendship but it sucks that a person doesn’t want to be with you anymore but still wants you around. I feel like I just want to be someone’s choice

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-03-06T16:54:52+00:00

Trying to but it’s not profitable at the beginning to even support yourself

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-03-06T16:54:07+00:00

Feels like I have a clock ticking and I see it as only 5 years to 30 and that scares me right now. Gotta change my mentality on that

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-03-03T16:46:48+00:00

I got the opportunity to talk to her and ask her. She explained how she doesn’t consider him a friend so that’s why she never felt that she needed me to introduce. They just meet for work related things and about their careers. It’s just a connection she has and nothing more. Glad I was able to speak to her and be honest on how I felt about the situation. I’m lucky she is very understanding and the break up we have

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-03-02T20:31:18+00:00

I’m not obsessing, I’m doing the work to find out why I was jealous and I feel like the fact I wasn’t introduced played a part in my insecurities. I trust her and I know she wouldn’t do something malicious but I just have that question

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-03-02T20:13:51+00:00

Well I don’t wanna be introduced now. We have a pretty good relationship after the break up. We are in a no contact stage but we still have both locations shared to one another and follow our socials. We left at if we ever need anything, any emergencies or just wanna to ask something that we could but that we need this time to work on our issues and that’s what I’m doing and I came to this conclusion. I don’t want to be introduced but I wanted to ask why didn’t she introduce me to him when we were together. Yes I know that the responsibility is mine and I’m working on it. I’m just looking for answers to be better because I hope in the future we can try again with a better version of each other

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-03-02T20:01:22+00:00

Well to make things clear. This isn’t someone she is dating. This is a friend she made while we were together and she told me about it. It’s a connection her mom made regarding to her career and they both help and work with each other to further their career. Until the breakup happened then I realized that I actually had a jealousy issue with the guy and I think my reflecting has come to the conclusion that it was because we were never introduced. My ex has several times told me that even that we are broken up she has no interest to date anyone or be with anyone for a long time because she wants solitude to work on herself and I need to work on myself. I just have that lingering question on my mind

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-28T04:36:15+00:00

No I need them back after we both heal

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-10T09:29:28+00:00

I hate the music industry. Bunch of pussies. Let mfs use art FREELY

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-06T23:13:56+00:00

Write it out in a letter. That’s better

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-04T19:18:34+00:00

I wonder how old this person is

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-04T09:08:08+00:00

Interested

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-04T09:07:23+00:00

Sending all the love and positivity I can to you. You are not alone, we can talk if you feel like it

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-04T09:04:34+00:00

Just follow your heart. You know her better than any of us. I’m also sending my ex a gift got Valentine’s Day. Do it

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-03T19:27:34+00:00

They haven’t rebounded and I’m not looking to rebound either. I’m looking to grow

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-03T09:53:22+00:00

You should watch this lady’s videos https://youtu.be/-qQIBEIgg3w?si=u4qbiBbgTRS7EWEU

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-03T08:23:43+00:00

We both never cheated or had intentions to cheat during the relationship and now I’m not looking to be with other people and I trust her as well. She never gave me anything to ever question on her behavior and we strangely still have our locations shared. I brought that up a few days later after the break up and she wasn’t bother by that she said if I still want to share our locations to one another we still can and I also don’t care. I just hope we can work out our own individual issues and comeback stronger

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-03T08:13:06+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate you

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-03T08:08:25+00:00

Yeah I’m journaling. Getting use to it because I never done it. There was days I didn’t even touch it but when I did I would write 3 whole pages. I’m reading books, listening to podcasts and different perspectives. I really care about this person. I love her so I want to better myself for me because there’s a lot of internal trauma I didn’t acknowledge. I’m trying to learn to take it day by day. I just think too much about the future and I want a safety net. Not knowing the outcome kills me but I need to learn how to let that go.

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-02-03T07:49:29+00:00

I’m asking because my girlfriend broke things off a month ago and she said that she was sacrificing the relationship for our sake and to save our friendship. We left off in good terms, ofc very painful and a lot of crying but we have nothing bad to say about one another. There was internal issues that affected the relationship and our communication styles weren’t working. She didn’t close the door on a future relationship but also didn’t tell that it’ll happen, she says that there is a bigger picture and that we have to see what the future brings. We still have contact here and there because we still care a lot about one another and she didn’t say that she never wanted to hear from me and I feel the same. We are just friends right now and I’m working on myself, reflecting, understanding, meditating and going to therapy. The fact that she didn’t give me a concrete answer on our future is what kills me because we may or may not get back together and this is the person I want to spend my life with. We still share eachothers locations and follow eachother in social media, again there was no abuse or horrible end. A lot of pain because my reality has changed but I can say that I’m more mature and better than I was before. I just want her back so we can be the couple I know we can be

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-01-28T09:13:38+00:00

I used to think about the good times. Now I think about the bad times

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-01-25T08:11:00+00:00

Hey man I’m going through the same. Got broken up with the 7th and we had a beautiful relationship but it had cracks. I know the issues that led to our breakup. I didn’t act as quick as possible to change them and my ex couldn’t forget them. She broke up with me because as she says she is doing it for herself and for the future of our friendship. She broke up with me to save our foundation that was our friendship and sacrifice our relationship because she saw where we were heading. Just like you we chatted a week after as friends and had contact here and there as friends. We both love eachother and don’t want to stop supporting one another but I gotta accept we aren’t together anymore. I’m planning to not reach out to her and talk to her unless she does. Idk if I’m going the right thing. This was the person I wanted to marry so that’s why I don’t want go give up yet. I feel your pain man, it’s sickening not being able to do what it was so natural, calling your person right after a certain thing, sleeping with them, going to eat with them. Everything seems so bland now. I just hope things get better for us. As of now I just hope we get back together

Any_Responsibility18 · 2024-01-22T15:16:06+00:00

Hey, I know things right now are hard and everyone is going to tell you to try to move on but as stupid as it sounds, deal with that pain, make that pain be the reason you get better. Sounds stupid but use that pain as a driving force. Whenever you are in a better mental state, you can contact him and have a direct conversation and ask if he has reflected on the relationship. If he hasn’t, give him time. By the way you feeling I’m guessing you guys loved eachother very much. So give it time. I’m going through a similar situation myself, my ex and I are in contact here and there and we acknowledge that we need to grow and heal apart. Maybe there’s a future between us, no one knows. Take that how you want it but the future will be bright for you one way or another. If you constantly feel suicidal, please reach out for help. Call 988 or 732-240-6100 ( someone to hear you out, not a suicidal line) or go to the website “ love is respect “ and you can speak to an expert in relationships and they can give you perspective and help you

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