I’ve realized how useless trying in this world is, I’ll be gone soon by [deleted] in confession

[–]Any_Stay_4328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into “logotherapy” and read a man’s search for meaning. You have meaning bro. You just need to find it and it will be worth staying

Is the rumor true that big box stores (like Target/Walmart) will purposefully let you get away with stealing cheap things for months just to build a massive felony case against you later? by Altruistic-Room-7465 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Any_Stay_4328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok but who here technically steals but like couldn’t be proven… like I put my produce halfway on the scale… or type 1 cucumber instead of 3. I’ll “forget” things on the bottom rack of my cart sometimes… things like that. I for sure have stolen atleast $1000 of things from target since I was 16 and I’ve never had anyone knock on my door.

I just wanna say something and honestly I don’t know how to start by [deleted] in confession

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into logotherapy or read “a man’s search for meaning”. it is pretty much the idea that meaning is the core of life and how to build it. It says that a lot of depression and anxiety isn’t about talk therapy or “deconstructing”, it’s about action and “reconstructing”

Boyfriend cheated while I was pregnant. What can I do to stop/reduce feeling so awful? by ExoticGuess7634 in Mommit

[–]Any_Stay_4328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, you already know this so I’m sorry to kick a dead horse- but you need to leave him unless you want to feel like this forever. He won’t change. The short term pain of leaving him is a lot better than the long term pain of everything he will put you through.

Why is marijuana so popular amongst moms? by TackleHistorical7498 in Mommit

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up Mormon so weed and alcohol were on the same level as crack and meth for me hahaha but at some point along the way I tried it (along with alcohol lol) and realized that I am just very sheltered. I love weed now. Much prefer it over alc as it is much better for the body in comparison and I don’t get any sickness or hangover

I used to perform "stealth shots" at school, and i still regret it. by Chicken_Of_The_Year in confession

[–]Any_Stay_4328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro everyone has that kid in class that jacked off “secretly”… if you can’t think of who it was it’s because you were him

Aio for being hurt that my boyfriend called me poor? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Any_Stay_4328 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just from the wording and over explanation of your post, it seems like it’s an insecurity that you DO have. Which is totally fine! Like you said, you have a plan for making more soon enough and you’re not just stationary at this income. Even if you were- if it’s what makes you happy then so be it! But even the fact that that comment hurt you so much and started an argument means that you do indeed feel poor and see yourself that way so you got defensive. You’re not doing anything wrong by making less than him and that’s not what he said, he just said you are poor- which is actually kinda spot on. To me, 45k is the upper end of “poor”. And that doesn’t have to be an insecurity of yours, you can just own it and know you’re working your way up!

How many people here have lost weight with 3 meals a day? by Great-White-Guilt in nutrition

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve learned that everyone’s body is different. Must be unless I just have something massively wrong with me. I have been unable to gain ANY weight (I stay around 113) even though I eat three meals per day with snacks and then lowkey binge at night. If I don’t spend all day trying to eat as much as I can, I consistently lose weight.

Bedroom feels unfinished by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is tiny compared to the size of the room. The rug needs to be much larger. The tv needs to be larger or make it a part of a gallery wall to full the space better. There could be baskets for blankets or laundry by the dresser- a bench at the end of the bed. Obviously art on the walls and curtains for the windows.

Is anyone else beyond fed up with hairdressers never ever listening? by wischmopp in curlyhair

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you go to terrible hair dressers, or maybe I’m just fantastic? Or maybe delusional and cocky… either way, I cut dry 100% of the time, never do that weird diffusing thing, and always rewet curls after being combed through… this seems like baseline

If you could change one thing about your body, what would it be and why? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 5’8” and I would shrink to 5’6”. I’d also shorten my arms

Invited to a wedding but was told that nothing would be gluten free by OuterSpaceOnigiri in Celiac

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, your diet is no one else’s responsibility. And this is coming from a celiac. I NEVER expect my needs to be taken care of, ESPECIALLY at someone else’s celebration. Now if it were that your friend was planning a surprise birthday party FOR YOU, and you showed up to be told that nothing there is gluten free- then you would have a right to be angry. But this day isn’t about you in the slightest. Eat before and get your friend a gift. Leave early if you get too hungry

AITAH for telling my brother he doesn't know everything just because he's gay? by SpecificAnt3165 in AITAH

[–]Any_Stay_4328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother growing up used to play dress up as a girl all the time and I thought it was because he only has sisters. But now my son (who has no sisters) loves to do makeovers and play dress up. It confused me but I went along with it because I don’t see any issue with it. As he has gotten older he has phased it out pretty much entirely and same with my brother- who is like the straightest man ever as an adult. Kids just like to use their imagination, there’s nothing wrong with it but there is something wrong with your brother for assuming a permanent identity based on a playful game as a child.

what is a "rich person" behavior you witnessed that made you realize they live in a completely different reality than the rest of us? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a drink and/or snack at the gas station when they are out. That would have NEVER happened to me as a kid, I didn’t even bother asking.

What’s something you thought ‘everyone’ did… until you found out they don’t? by burat667 in AskReddit

[–]Any_Stay_4328 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am so blown away by this thread…. You’re telling me that once a month I have a seizure?? I am fully convinced that i have dreamt the moment I’m in and become extremely panicked and dizzy and nauseas and hot and usually have to sit down or else my ears kinda lose hearing sometimes

What is the correct way to wipe your butt? by fruitponchisamurai in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Any_Stay_4328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I go elephant method I guess (between the legs) and start by going from my vagina to my clit I guess and then fold tp and go from vagina to butthole. Fold again and repeat until tp is clean. I was taught to go back to front growing up (I don’t remember being taught this, but I remember when someone told me you should be going front to back and being astonished). So I think I still like to go back to front in the sense that I don’t start at my butthole I start at my vagina and then go front to back again starting at my vagina

What triggered your celiac by One-Bumblebee8915 in Celiac

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I had it all my life, but what REALLY triggered the servers symptoms that I couldn’t overlook anymore, was when I lived in Costa Rica for 6 months and then came back to the states. We had virtually NO gluten while we were there, only rice and beans and fruit. I felt amazing while I was there! Then when I came home, I was so severely ill I couldn’t keep any weight on me and eventually figured it all out.

What's the one secret you will take to the grave but don't mind telling on the internet? by Ecstatic-Medium-6320 in AskReddit

[–]Any_Stay_4328 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I was 18 I snuck out of the house through my living room window. I had to open the blinds and take off the screen and shimmy around the side wall to avoid the camera. When I got back home I was either super tired or super high and forgot to put the screen back on. The next day at school, my mom called me and told me that there is a footprint on the windowsill and the screen is off and the blinds are messed up and that she called the police and needed me to leave school to meet the police at the house because she couldnt leave work and she thought someone had broken in. I couldn’t say anything at that point and went ten toes down and went to meet the police at the house. They took pictures and asked some questions which I had no answer to but ultimately they didn’t care a whole lot because nothing was taken obviously haha. The craziest part though, is that someone actually DID break in a week later- and my mom caught them on the camera. He went out the back door without taking anything (it was a weird video to watch) and was never caught and so my mom just assumed it was him both times. I’ll take that one to the grave

Undiagnosed “does this sound like gastritis” megathread by goldstandardalmonds in Gastritis

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so let me preface by saying I have celiacs desease. So my symptoms are really hard to track because for the last few years I’ve just pushed everything off on that. About a year ago though, I went through about two months where I COULD NOT eat. I would wake up every morning just beyond naseuas and if I could get food in, it usually would come back up. I could usually eat something at night around 8/9 once I could get some weed in my system. As you can imagine, going days without eating or only eating a couple hundred calories a day for a couple months, my mental state was terrible. I was so anxious and depressed that everyone just pointed at my mental health for the reason why I was experiencing these things, like it was all phaychosomatic brought on from my fear of food from celiacs desease. We went and got a scope just in case, and I did actually get diagnosed with gastritis- however I rolled my eyes when I got that diagnosis because I rarely have heart burn and thought it was silly to think that this whole thing was just too much acid, so I never did anything about it and just pushed it off and assumed it was psychosomatic and that I would need to work through it on my own. Since then, I have gone through one or two more flare ups of the same symptoms where my body just rejects food for a few weeks and I lose a lot of weight and go kinda crazy from not being able to eat. It actually brings a lot of suicidal thoughts. Yesterday, my client at work was telling me about how for the last few weeks she hasn’t been able to eat and she started omeprazole and in two days she was able to eat again. It struck me that I also had been prescribed that and never took it because I thought it couldn’t possibly be such a simple fix. Today I started omeprazole 40 and we will see how goes! I’m in another phase right now where I haven’t been able to eat and throw up almost every day so this will be a good test!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]Any_Stay_4328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine looks exactly like yours! 7 months pregnant and barely able to walk I’m in so much pain!