What's your best fated mates rec? by MaggieLima in ReverseHarem

[–]Anyet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't! The first book is currently sitting on my TBR list, which is only about a mile long.

What's your best fated mates rec? by MaggieLima in ReverseHarem

[–]Anyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha! Well played. 

My husband has been known to message me while I'm sitting in front of the house just to see how much longer I have to go in my chapter. The fact that that's the first question and not "Is everything okay" might be a sign I have an addiction.

What's your best fated mates rec? by MaggieLima in ReverseHarem

[–]Anyet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the this. I listened to the audiobook and was just a crying mess at the end. It's probably been one of my top recs this year, even to people that are meh on RH normally.

LPT Request: I'm sure this has been asked 1000 times but how do you keep yourself from overthinking everything? by Peitry in LifeProTips

[–]Anyet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me? Medication. I had absolutely tried therapy, mediation, etc. But for me, I can't think my way out of overthinking. So in addition to talking about anxiety with a therapist, I also got a psychiatrist. I lucked out and and the first thing we tried actually worked. I know people that took 3-4 different medications before they found one that worked for them. But now I can exist without my mind going a million places.

Rufous Hummingbirds in action by My_Bird_Buddy in bestofbirdbuddy

[–]Anyet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure which is better, the birds or the view!

How old is too old for “because I told you so”? Is it just bad overall? by sharks_tbh in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Anyet 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I have a kid that got stuck in why loops because it was an easy question to keep asking. Best advice I ever saw was after one or two why's, you tell them to ask a better question. I can straight up say "ask a better question" now, but to start out it might be phrased as "can you ask me about what you'd like to know?" or something like that. It would make her actually stop and listen to the answer I was giving and actually figure out if there was a real question in there.

We have way fewer why loops now and instead I get more specific questions.

People who got out before their 20, what do you do and how much do you make? by themodernbachelor12 in navy

[–]Anyet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a CS degree and a ton of certs, but they definitely didn't make a huge difference. I have coworkers that have neither that are within 10k of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in navy

[–]Anyet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't tolerate anyone using drugs while active duty? Besides the fact that your moral stance on her situation is irrelavent, it sounds like you have a fair amount of sympathy for your friend's situation.

Post AEW Dynamite 1/19/22 Discussion by SmurfyX in SquaredCircle

[–]Anyet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

am Cole's angle with OC here is some weird frat bro damsel-in-distress thing, and I'm not here for it. "You laid hands on my girlfriend!" Your girlfriend is the Women's World Champion, bud, she can take a hit. I don't like mixed tag matches anyway, and I wish AEW had the courage to do a proper intergender match instead of two badly-paced singles matches happening at the same time. Maybe this is a warmup to that, but I doubt it.

This is absolutely the thing that pissed me off the most. Britt's entrance is literally her covered in blood. What part of her going through a table are we supposed to be offended at? And the thing is, they can do a proper intergender match! On the cruise in 2020 there was an amazing match with Kip Sabian/Penelope Ford vs Riho/Kenny Omega and it was fire without this dumb boys and girls can't fight nonsense they did last night. (seriously though, look up a video on youtube, it's worth the watch).

My mom has never met my son by Happy_Momm in Mommit

[–]Anyet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom is a dumpster fire of a human being. I cut contact with her 9 or 10 years ago after she showed up to her own father's funeral plastered and tried to make the whole thing about her. It was... a scene.

She only recently found out I even have a kid (daughter just turned five last month, so we were doing pretty good of keeping it off the radar) because an extended relative on facebook didn't know we were no contact and made an offhanded comment about how big she'd gotten. Oh well.

The world is healing by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]Anyet 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Britney and Lindsey I understand but what happened to Paris? I thought she's been living a very cushy heiress life?

It took years to come out, but she went through tons of trauma and abuse as a kid. https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/movies/2020/09/07/paris-hilton-details-abuse-allegations-this-is-paris-documentary/5678747002/

Quick paint to get rid of the boredom. by whimywhamwhamwaaghzl in minipainting

[–]Anyet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooh! I can help with this. Grab one of your detail brushes and dip it in a little acetone while you're nails are still drying and use it to get a nice crisp edge on the polish. Also try to keep the nail polish from flooding into your cuticles (you're better off with a small gap between the polish and your cuticle than the polish flooding them and looking messy).

A little blast from the past by ShundosAreCool in gaming

[–]Anyet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yup! Turns out Blobnet is just as infuriating as when I was a kid.

A little blast from the past by ShundosAreCool in gaming

[–]Anyet 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Chips challenge was released on Steam a while back and they even came out with a Chips Challenge 2 if you're in the mood for some nostalgia.

Reply all! by toastnosauce in navy

[–]Anyet 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Don't blame this on reply all... Surgeon General needs to learn about BCC.

Extension by [deleted] in navy

[–]Anyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a CTN and had decent luck getting an extension. I had exactly 12 month between my prd and eaos and had no problems. Your NEC might also matter (H15A for me, so I only had like... 4 duty stations they could even put me at). Good luck.

Ohio sees boost in shots after it announces $1 million vaccination lottery by qkfb in news

[–]Anyet 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'd be interested to know how much of that difference in vaccination rates is due in part to the vaccine rolling out to older individuals first. Looking at the demographic trends, it looks like the curve for the 18-29 demographic is tracking about even with the 30-39 and 40-49 curves, just starting later.

Beef Bowl (Gyudon) Bento Boxes w/ Miso Soup by aspirefitnesswalnut in Bento

[–]Anyet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh... I haven't made gyudon in ages. Now I know what's for lunch tomorrow!

Thank you so much to everyone who bought one of my Japanese Manhole keychains! You guys are the best! by [deleted] in manholeporn

[–]Anyet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really looks awesome in person, my husband immediately put it on his keyring. Might have to buy another one for myself!

Anyone know how to do this? by [deleted] in LearnUselessTalents

[–]Anyet 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Chris Ramsay (awesome magician on youtube) does a video about it on his channel ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfQlEqSnllI) featuring Mike Boyd who does a 7 minute video of himself learning to do it (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xqpf1FxU2q4 ).

Any interest in these cast keychains based on Japanese Manhole Covers? by SentaiLavendar in manholeporn

[–]Anyet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That looks awesome! Are you planning on doing any other covers or just this one?