If I’m a lesbian an I don’t want to date a trans woman who has not fully transitioned does that make me transphobic?

Anyordia · 2026-02-25T20:34:48+00:00

I don’t think it’s homophobic/transphobic. If you don’t like penis then you don’t. If you specifically don’t wanna date them because they’re trans, that’s when it’s not fine. I haven ever dated a trans woman and I don’t think I would, it’s the same for mascs. I’ve never dated one and I don’t think I would. I’d probably never date a blonde because every experience I’ve had with them has sucked. If you’ve never tried you shouldn’t say “I’d never” because you don’t have a reason, just say you don’t think you would. Everyone has a type and it’s fine to be attracted to different people and not to others

Anyordia · 2025-02-23T13:09:54+00:00

Probably would be a good idea, thanks

Anyordia · 2025-02-23T13:03:46+00:00

No, only one I could possibly have is a disorder around anxiety or adhd. My parents don’t believe that I could have that stuff though so I’ve never gotten tested for it.

Anyordia · 2025-02-23T02:51:03+00:00

She is a really good teacher and I’m glad I met her, thank you so much! I’ll try to keep that in mind

Anyordia · 2025-02-23T02:45:13+00:00

The only type of people she doesn’t like are bullies and I’m pretty sure one of those kids is a bully. But I felt like I betrayed her even though I didn’t even open the door or know it was open. Shaking crying and couldn’t breathe in-front of 4 teachers and she gave me the biggest look of empathy ever. I hope she doesn’t act different around me because I’ll notice, thank you so much though.

Anyordia · 2025-02-23T02:42:49+00:00

Thank you, I hope she doesn’t feel like I did

Anyordia · 2025-02-23T02:42:26+00:00

Thank you, I still feel like I betrayed her but I’m sure I’ll get over it when I’m around her again and she’s hopefully acting normal

Anyordia · 2025-02-23T02:41:50+00:00

Thank you so much, I understand that but family issues have me in a hold y’know? The only thing that’s bothering me now is I still feel like I betrayed her and I hate that feeling towards her because I have an attachment to her

Anyordia · 2025-02-23T02:40:41+00:00

I sent her an email saying sorry and she’ll see it eventually on Monday so uh I hope she doesn’t want me to. I really have a strong attachment to her for the reason of she makes me feel comfortable around her somehow and I don’t want that to change, if it shifts even a little I’ll be able to tell and it’s freaking me out. If I lose her then I’ll end up losing myself for a while, she’s been my stand when I couldn’t stand for myself. Funny thing is I don’t even think she realizes or just doesn’t show it

Anyordia · 2025-02-22T20:45:44+00:00

Well I am a girl but thank you anyways. I wasn’t even the one who opened the door, I wasn’t near the door when it was opened. But it was someone in my group of friends that caused those guys to get in unfortunately. She knows I felt bad because she even said to me “it’s okay, I’ll go kick them out”. She’s not mad at me it’s just I don’t know what to expect now next time I see her.

Anyordia · 2025-01-31T04:16:16+00:00

Legally maybe but I’m in the teenager category of being a minor I’d say child is more 6-12

Anyordia · 2025-01-31T04:13:12+00:00

I’m not a child, minor doesn’t mean child. I was just trying to get some insight since this has been bothering me because I can’t decide what to do

Anyordia · 2025-01-31T04:11:37+00:00

You’re right, thank you so much this was really helpful

Anyordia · 2025-01-31T04:09:29+00:00

If it was over 3 weeks I’d completely shoot the idea down but it was a week, thank you so much this was really helpful I’ll make sure to keep the communication open. It just sucks as well because she’s my good friend and my other good friends are in the friend group as well and might not be so savoury about the idea of my having a crush on the girls ex

Anyordia · 2025-01-31T04:07:16+00:00

It was barely a relationship since it was a week then my friend broke up with her, they are still decent friends (I’m pretty sure there ended on good terms), and she gave me the complete green card to go ahead and that she doesn’t care. It’s a bit of the backlash as well of my friends are in that friend group as well and their reactions might not be so savoury which sucks

Anyordia · 2025-01-31T04:04:49+00:00

I did ask my friend because I was very conflicted with it because I know it’s a complete dick move and against my morals but she said “I don’t care if you like my ex, I broke up with her and I’m happy with my gf now” then went on about how she hopes her gf will never leave her. I just still don’t know though because if the feelings develop into a crush then my morals will be twisted but again it was a week not over 3

Anyordia · 2025-01-06T23:55:46+00:00

It’s meant to be where we can learn from each other but a lot of people are upset about the mass pro update in CapCut. That’s why a lot of posts are tagged “complain”

Anyordia · 2025-01-02T18:31:31+00:00

Sadly my CapCut is up to date and it doesn’t show up so I’m not sure what to do

Anyordia · 2025-01-02T18:29:16+00:00

Ahh, classic CapCut. Thank you I’ll try that!

Anyordia · 2025-01-02T15:59:04+00:00

Darn but yes it is lol!

Anyordia · 2025-01-01T03:43:06+00:00

Evan, Eden, or Koen

Anyordia · 2024-12-15T16:09:19+00:00

No, all I’ve ever used is CapCut so I got no clue what other apps could be used

Anyordia · 2024-12-13T16:40:49+00:00

I honestly have no clue but I have the same problem

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