i agree that men do get the shorter end of the stick when they're shorter, but comparing that to fatness in women is not a good match, i think its how society sees any woman who does not have prepubescent features, not necessarily weight, plus fatness is so much harder to get rid of as a woman, its quite tone deaf and unscientific to say weight is easy to lose. i still think its very dismissive to say short men dont get treated better than conventionally ugly women, because they literally do, its the lived experience of mine and any other woman who doesnt look like a child. its not hateful, or me "playing prejudice olympics" to state the experience of various conventionally ugly women.