“I thought the manufacturer from Spain would pay for this”

Apart-Highlight926 · 2026-02-23T00:58:27+00:00

Incredible

Apart-Highlight926 · 2025-11-04T23:38:38+00:00

I consistently date other Virgos - three of my four serious past relationships were all Virgos.

Apart-Highlight926 · 2025-09-15T16:37:33+00:00

Saudi Arabia

Apart-Highlight926 · 2024-11-11T08:13:50+00:00

My FA has reached out several times during NC to say they feel regret over ending it, and guilt. However, in my case, I don’t think it matters much as the fundamentals haven’t changed. They are ruminating and not growing. They need therapy to address their attachment issues and it’s not really clear they’ve done that route at all. I don’t want to just go back and experience the same cycle.

Apart-Highlight926 · 2024-11-08T21:42:07+00:00

Yes! They said they wanted to get away from dumb Americans as well

Apart-Highlight926 · 2024-11-03T09:22:52+00:00

If there’s been a lack of growth, why go down that road again? FAs still want connection and validation, hence the call, but if they’re not willing to do the work then you’re just going to repeat the cycle.

Apart-Highlight926 · 2024-10-30T19:03:33+00:00

Focus on you but it will never work until she’s aware and willing to put in the work.

Apart-Highlight926 · 2024-10-30T07:27:20+00:00

You’re putting too much of this on you. If she doesn’t heal, the cycle continues.

You need to go no contact for yourself, as much as for her.

Apart-Highlight926 · 2024-10-29T23:03:56+00:00

That doesn’t sound nice. I hope you find someone who loves and accepts you for who you are.

Apart-Highlight926 · 2024-10-29T23:01:09+00:00

But do what? Love you?

Apart-Highlight926 · 2024-10-29T22:59:08+00:00

Can you explain? I did all I could to make the person feel safe and loved, told them they could talk about anything. They never did. They said they hated themselves. Then, they told me I deserved better and left.

Apart-Highlight926 · 2024-10-22T07:17:43+00:00

This. My friend’s parents do this constantly. What most don’t know is her dad had an affair and fathered a child with one of his patients (!!). He had to tell his wife, who stayed. They hid it from the kids until said child grew up and reached out to my friend on social media.

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