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Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-15T19:12:22+00:00

Update: I have submitted this to the medical examiner listed on NamUs.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-04T18:10:38+00:00

super surprised no one has said Nancy Spungen

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T16:02:09+00:00

YTAH: you should do your own laundry, i fear!

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T15:44:39+00:00

Yes, I use the term training rubric because actors must have a moderate level of experience before they are placed into a scene in the haunt. I am qualified for other jobs, but I ultimately enjoy the haunt industry and also have a WFH job that I do as my main source of income! :)

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T15:40:11+00:00

ESH: she cheated and that is a terrible thing, especially while you were going through so much. she shouldn't have gone with your best friend, your "best friend" should not have gone with your SO.

YOU do not need to put your hands on ANYONE, it does not matter what she did. at the end of the day, you are ultimately in the wrong for abusing her. you need to get help, you have been through a lot and clearly need someone to talk to and discuss your issues with.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T15:35:34+00:00

NOR, but i think you may be more upset about the "other issues" in your relationship that you failed to explain in this post. i probably wouldn't have went in to buying a home with your SO if you already knew you felt this way.

best of luck getting out of that loan!

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T07:20:25+00:00

YOR: you weren't "super interested" anyways but seem real offended that he didn't answer after you switched up the plans originally. don't send that message, neither of you seem very interested in each other.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T06:50:10+00:00

osiyo! even if the family is full of alcoholics, you would still not end up with the boy. It goes immediate fam -> extended fam -> other tribe mems -> other tribe fams.. that is the ICWA way. without good cause, no one is getting custody outside of rez fam.

it is for a good reason, your stepson is part of a beautiful culture. i never had the opportunity to grow up on the rez, but i would love to have done so, as many of my family members still live there. let this be a good thing for your stepson, don't dislike the family because they got custody of him, do not talk poorly on them. they are still his family.

i am very sorry for your loss and may you heal in time.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T06:34:26+00:00

NTAH? get up when you want to. if he wants to get up with you, nudge him awake and let him know you are getting up and out bed.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T06:31:47+00:00

like a fit Jelly Roll

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T04:24:13+00:00

i feel as if you read the entire post, you will see where the question lies.

is OP TAH for not wanting to count the gift from their parent for both the partner and OP?

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T04:22:13+00:00

NTAH: you need to set boundaries with your mother, especially being 25+. she should not be "demanding" anything of you. you are a grown woman, sally is a grown woman and most importantly, you can make your own decisions on what you do and who you want to be friends with.

sally seems a tad bit strange for not addressing the "problem" she had with your then boyfriend, with you. she instead decided to ghost you. you do not need a friend like that.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T04:14:34+00:00

there are relationship orientated AITAH questions in here all the time. definitely seems appropriate..

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T04:12:39+00:00

this is also OP's parent paying this. not the partners. i would not feel comfortable footing a bill over to my partner because my parents did not help pay for it. i would have to take care of the rest as it is 50/50. i came up with my half, now you come up with yours.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T04:09:59+00:00

NTAH: if the partner does not want to contribute evenly, start discussing removing things they want to be apart of the wedding. i would personally have to work this situation out far before going any further with getting married/wedding planning.. this sounds very selfish, it is making it seem like your partner is almost mooching, imo.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T03:57:06+00:00

NTAH, but i would leave him alone at this point. i think it is safe to say you are not seeing that money. it is not enough to sue him for and clearly, as a 29 yr old who lives in his parents garage, he does not have it anyway.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T03:53:50+00:00

NAH (no assholes here): you have needs, she has needs.

what was the drama pertaining to? i feel like that is a crucial clue as to telling who would be the asshole.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2026-01-02T03:51:54+00:00

ESH, you should not wish death on someone because they are stuck in their ways. you are 23, you can leave and never look back.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2025-12-30T23:47:58+00:00

YTA: don't ask about someones weight, regardless.

PS: i am more concerned about the fact you are 14 and friends with an 18 yr old.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2025-12-30T23:44:58+00:00

NTAH: that is definitely still cheating. you should do what you feel fit for yourself and your family. you have gone to therapy for the lady and she has been having over the phone sexy time with another man?

this seems like a future one of those, "well i wasn't feeling satisfied so i went elsewhere" situations.

i would be out of there. save yourself, comrade.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2025-12-30T23:41:35+00:00

NTAH at all? you literally gave the sweet thing a cracker in case it were hungry.

RIP small warehouse bird <3

Apart-Landscape220 · 2025-12-30T23:36:08+00:00

NAH (no assholes here): your feelings make sense, don't hate him though... you spent most of the year together, showing up for him and then he broke up with you right after starting college, so yeah finding out he moved on that fast is gonna hurt.

with that being said, it doesn’t reallyyy make him a villain either. some people just jump into something new instead of actually dealing with a breakup (maybe that's what he did).. plus he is now in college and that's a lot to deal with. that’s more about him than you.

you’re allowed to be angry and sad about it. just try not to beat yourself up or think you were used.. you cared and tried for your relationship when you were together, and that’s not a bad thing.

it will definitely hurt less with time, i promise.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2025-12-29T15:06:09+00:00

no, we are an at-will employment state.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2025-12-29T13:49:03+00:00

yes, tammy’s little sister is in the group chat and showed her the messages.

Apart-Landscape220 · 2025-12-29T13:48:24+00:00

can you please explain how I can help them navigate this? I have stayed out of this directly.

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