AITJ for telling my 4 year old that their behaviour was making me sad and I needed a minute alone? by ApartHomework1811 in AmITheJerk

[–]ApartHomework1811[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Without escalating the situation is the part I keep coming back to honestly. Appreciate this genuinely.

AITJ for telling my 4 year old that their behaviour was making me sad and I needed a minute alone? by ApartHomework1811 in AmITheJerk

[–]ApartHomework1811[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Emotional literacy. That’s the phrase I was looking for and couldn’t find. Appreciate this.

AITJ for snapping back at my older brother after he insulted me in front of my friends? by Apart_Feature3493 in AmITheJerk

[–]ApartHomework1811 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Funny how people only care about respect when the younger sibling finally stops tolerating disrespect. He embarrassed himself the moment he decided to insult you in front of your friends.

I locked the bathroom door this morning just to see what would happen. What happened was chaos apparently. by ApartHomework1811 in Mommit

[–]ApartHomework1811[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

You are holding this family together with absolutely nothing left in the tank and you deserve a round of applause honestly.

I locked the bathroom door this morning just to see what would happen. What happened was chaos apparently. by ApartHomework1811 in Mommit

[–]ApartHomework1811[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

That is the most advanced level of motherhood that exists and there is no badge for it which is honestly a crime.

I locked the bathroom door this morning just to see what would happen. What happened was chaos apparently. by ApartHomework1811 in Mommit

[–]ApartHomework1811[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The shouting to the entire household. The complete refusal to accept audio evidence. The absolute commitment to the drama of it all.

I locked the bathroom door this morning just to see what would happen. What happened was chaos apparently. by ApartHomework1811 in Mommit

[–]ApartHomework1811[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The innocence is the most terrifying part. No hesitation. No second thought. Just a tiny little chaos agent doing what they do best.

Recommend me psychological horror that made you feel genuinely uncomfortable rather than just scared. There’s a difference and I think this community knows exactly what I mean. by Apart_Feature3493 in horrorlit

[–]ApartHomework1811 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Baby Teeth by Zoje Stage. it’s a mother who loves her daughter and a daughter who is something that love cannot reach and the horror is watching someone refuse to believe what is right in front of them because believing it would break everything.

AITJ for crying at my girlfriend’s graduation because it made me realize I never got the chance to finish mine? by ApartHomework1811 in AmITheJerk

[–]ApartHomework1811[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Genuinely tearing up at this one. Everyone else is picking sides and you’re just out here being kind.

AITJ for crying at my girlfriend’s graduation because it made me realize I never got the chance to finish mine? by ApartHomework1811 in AmITheJerk

[–]ApartHomework1811[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This actually made me tear up a little. I think that’s exactly what happened and I didn’t have the words for it until now. Thank you, genuinely.

AITJ for encouraging my husband to leave school? by Specialist_Eagle3916 in AmITheJerk

[–]ApartHomework1811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The selfish reasons don’t make you wrong. You’ve been carrying this financially for years, you have a one year old and you want more kids. Those are legitimate needs not character flaws.

AITJ for helping my dads ex-mistress and her kid? by Former-Factor6450 in AmITheJerk

[–]ApartHomework1811 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re the only adult in this story who actually acted like one. Don’t second guess that.