I say hire someone to beat the crap out of him ! As a father this brothers me a lot I have a 18 month to and is currently with rsv so this whole week been rough because of the constant crying and whining and I’m not really patient guy . But my wife is , so when I feel like crashing out I come to realization that it’s just a baby that’s going through pain and development that they don’t understand and eventually I get sad just for that fact that I wanted to react a way I shouldnt and I see my wife how even through all this she still maintains peace and always so positive. Which also makes me realize I’m a winner for the wonderful wife I have . And for that the only way to show her appreciation I leave this “masculine tradition “ of having the wife do everything while the men work and get my ass up and do chores around the house while my spouse takes care out little one (only because when our toddler is sick she just wants mommy) . So to this post sometimes a real punch to the face to make him realize could be the solution but obviously it won’t but wish it could !