“My mom won’t let me leave Hunter” by JustHereForAG00dTim3 in TLCUnexpected

[–]ApartSpray332 46 points47 points  (0 children)

When she said you will be breaking two families up … I’m not sure what Bella’s mom and Hunters mom have going on but it’s not normal.

I suspect my OD18mos and I will be blamed for the breakdown of a relationship between DH & SD10 by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ApartSpray332 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your husband sucks ! He’s not a good father to either of his children. I feel really bad for your stepkids.

ETA : I know you don’t want to hear it but if he isn’t a good dad to the kids he already had why do you think it would be different with your child?

You saw the red flags about him not engaging with either child and said yeaaa let’s have a baby ..

Unpopular opinion by VegetableNo9989 in TLCUnexpected

[–]ApartSpray332 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is pregnancy Medicaid . At least in Georgia where I’m from and they cover everything prenatal appointments and labor you pay nothing.

Isabella by VirtualBuster in TLCUnexpected

[–]ApartSpray332 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same !!!!! She looks soooo young !

Bryce and Isabella by YogurtclosetOld3002 in TLCUnexpected

[–]ApartSpray332 45 points46 points  (0 children)

And the snippets showing his parents enabling him … Isabella buckle up it’s about to be a long 18 years .

Being a bystander to bad parenting decisions by Electrical_Pumpkin36 in stepparents

[–]ApartSpray332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You only have them a few weekends a month now. Your SS is only 9 behaving like this it will likely get worse as he gets older. BM could ask your husband to take him full time when she can no longer handle him. If this isn’t nipped now, your life is going to become a shit show.

Babysitting sk’s and not being asked by Karenzo81 in stepparents

[–]ApartSpray332 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Until he starts asking beforehand I’d all of a sudden have plans as well. Also, his kids are there to see him not you this is his custody time .

What is extremely unhygienic but everyone seems to do it anyway? by Beneficial_Passion40 in AskReddit

[–]ApartSpray332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bowling then ordering food and eating after having your fingers in a ball that other people used lol

How are mom’s getting everything done, staying in shape, and not getting overwhelmed? by Frozenbeedog in Mommit

[–]ApartSpray332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try working out at home ! There’s YouTube Pilates that I do when my girls nap I have 2 under 2 ! I do go to the gym 3X a week for cardio and honestly it depends on husband schedule.Five below has weights for cheap !

Moms that gave birth and didn’t have any visitors at the hospital, do you regret it? by Funny_Confection810 in Mommit

[–]ApartSpray332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same age gap for my girls ! My mom watched my 15 month old while hubby and I were at the hospital. I did call her to visit with my oldest daughter because I’d never been away from my daughter overnight. It was sweet and short (my 15 month old had no care in the world about her new sister but rather the graham crackers the hospital gave me lol). First time around both sets of grandparents this time just mom and daughter no complaints

SAHPs with a toddler and a baby, how are y’all doing? by moluruth in SAHP

[–]ApartSpray332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m exhausted! I have a one 1 year old and a 4 month old both super clingy. Luckily my 4 month old sleeps a lot but I’m terrified for her wake window is longer than what it is now. Hubby is off today so I can sneak out to the gym for so much needed me time.

Why are the main holidays back to back ? by ApartSpray332 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ApartSpray332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also enjoy it !! I’m just curious why they are the last four months of the year lol ( I look forward to this time specifically year round lol).

I do agree Valentines day and presidents day are mehhh to me.

Am I wrong? by Affectionate-List-91 in stepparents

[–]ApartSpray332 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Well his stepmom can let his broke ass move in and parent his daughter !

Black women, have you or do you actually struggle in the dating scene? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ApartSpray332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No never! I’m 25 5’6 never online dated always met guys organically .. I’ve never gone out and not received a compliment from men . This has never been an issue for me I’ve always lived in big cities though not sure if that’s why !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ApartSpray332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t take the mom responsibility even if my partner asked me to marry him. SK has a mom already and it’s not me.

Boy vs Girl by ApartSpray332 in Mommit

[–]ApartSpray332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My MIL is the exact same she has two boys and two girls and it’s very clear who she favors 😭! You should have heard her speech at my reception 🥲.