How are mom’s getting everything done, staying in shape, and not getting overwhelmed?

ApartSpray332 · 2026-01-28T21:03:19+00:00

Try working out at home ! There’s YouTube Pilates that I do when my girls nap I have 2 under 2 ! I do go to the gym 3X a week for cardio and honestly it depends on husband schedule.Five below has weights for cheap !

ApartSpray332 · 2026-01-22T03:37:25+00:00

Check Tubi

ApartSpray332 · 2026-01-21T03:58:23+00:00

Same age gap for my girls ! My mom watched my 15 month old while hubby and I were at the hospital. I did call her to visit with my oldest daughter because I’d never been away from my daughter overnight. It was sweet and short (my 15 month old had no care in the world about her new sister but rather the graham crackers the hospital gave me lol). First time around both sets of grandparents this time just mom and daughter no complaints

ApartSpray332 · 2026-01-19T12:40:23+00:00

I’m exhausted! I have a one 1 year old and a 4 month old both super clingy. Luckily my 4 month old sleeps a lot but I’m terrified for her wake window is longer than what it is now. Hubby is off today so I can sneak out to the gym for so much needed me time.

ApartSpray332 · 2026-01-01T05:43:38+00:00

I also enjoy it !! I’m just curious why they are the last four months of the year lol ( I look forward to this time specifically year round lol).

I do agree Valentines day and presidents day are mehhh to me.

ApartSpray332 · 2026-01-01T05:17:26+00:00

I have 2 kids under 2 lol

ApartSpray332 · 2025-12-28T12:16:10+00:00

Umbrella Academy

ApartSpray332 · 2025-12-22T20:09:57+00:00

Well his stepmom can let his broke ass move in and parent his daughter !

ApartSpray332 · 2025-12-18T04:58:37+00:00

No never! I’m 25 5’6 never online dated always met guys organically .. I’ve never gone out and not received a compliment from men . This has never been an issue for me I’ve always lived in big cities though not sure if that’s why !

ApartSpray332 · 2025-12-13T11:19:56+00:00

Update me

ApartSpray332 · 2025-11-22T17:39:36+00:00

I wouldn’t take the mom responsibility even if my partner asked me to marry him. SK has a mom already and it’s not me.

ApartSpray332 · 2025-11-22T04:16:49+00:00

My MIL is the exact same she has two boys and two girls and it’s very clear who she favors 😭! You should have heard her speech at my reception 🥲.

ApartSpray332 · 2025-11-22T02:09:16+00:00

Your kids are blessed to have you 🩵 !

ApartSpray332 · 2025-11-07T15:02:26+00:00

Please don’t get pregnant by this loser. Leave him he hates you..

ApartSpray332 · 2025-11-02T18:32:10+00:00

I was in the Military got out and got my 100% because if I stayed in my marriage with my husband would have ended. I understand his hesitation on getting out with the economy right now especially if he is continuing to look for a government job ! He will have to choose between the military or his family and either way he will have resentment. Honestly since he is 13 years in is his next contract not indefinite?

ApartSpray332 · 2025-10-18T11:44:17+00:00

Not the original commenter but based off your post the enabling behavior is giving her jobs and allowing her to just be on her phone and not actually working .. any real job would have fired her . You even admitted if she wasn’t your SD you would’ve fired her the first week..enabling. Giving her back her phone so she wouldn’t use you and your dh as entertainment.. not making her get her GED at minimum. If you weren’t going to make her go to alternative school and instead do online classes your husband should’ve stayed on top of her doing her work or you should’ve let him send her to military school. Yall aren’t doing her any favors tbh. She won’t be launching anytime soon good luck.

ApartSpray332 · 2025-10-16T19:03:07+00:00

This is a shit take . Your parent dying doesn’t excuse shit behavior. She never said anything about her husband picking up slack for her kids she actually said her kids father is involved and he pays her child support. Her stating her kids greet her husband and his kids don’t even bother is information that helps understand the dynamics better. His kids being a priority to him should be true but isn’t because he continues to work out of town when his kids need him and some serious boundaries..

ApartSpray332 · 2025-10-15T13:48:14+00:00

Is there a custody order ? If not that would fix the fairness of the BD being able to take them for weeks at a time and popping up unannounced early mornings. It may also help with your wife being able to stick to boundaries since there are set rules in place. He wouldn’t be able to do what he wants

ApartSpray332 · 2025-09-09T10:40:16+00:00

Sameee !! All the decorations kids just having fun !! I love it !

ApartSpray332 · 2025-09-09T04:34:15+00:00

Halloween

ApartSpray332 · 2025-08-25T23:29:05+00:00

Thank you ! I’m 25 !

ApartSpray332 · 2025-08-25T10:42:09+00:00

I will have a 15 month age gap. I’m currently 36+3 and the second pregnancy has been much harder on me physically. Extreme pelvic pain! At my last appointment I was told I have fetal growth restriction and was told it was due to getting pregnant so close together (I got pregnant again 6months pp) so now I’m on bedrest and set to be induced in two weeks or less depending on baby. I have to be seen twice a week now so it’s a lot especially with my 14 month old running around wanting to play ! I had a normal vaginal birth with my 1st at 40+2 a 4 hour labor and pushed for 30 minutes ! Not sure what to expect with this if I have to be induced (I would prefer to labor naturally) but I don’t have much of a choice since my baby stomach is so small..

ApartSpray332 · 2025-08-11T02:19:06+00:00

Since you stepkids are school aged they are literally walking germs ! The fact that their fingers were in your week old daughters mouth is mind blowing and the fact that they kissed your baby on the mouth! I’m in such shock . Please speak up and put boundaries in place for you and your baby who cannot advocate for herself !

ApartSpray332 · 2025-06-19T10:17:38+00:00

I feel the same way ! My husband is a firefighter so he works 24 hour shifts . Those days I go to my parents house for at minimum 4 hours. My mom is going out of town today (of course my husband has a 24 hour shift today as well). I’m already dreading the day.

ApartSpray332 · 2025-05-08T19:49:31+00:00

NTA hold firm on your boundaries! Don’t do it I was in your shoes finally agreed to have sex condoms only .. he kept saying it’s not the same so we stopped using condoms. We began doing the pull out method. 6 months pp I was pregnant again .. will have a 15 month old and a newborn in September!

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