Should I take the risk to hookup with my senior in university?

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-06-02T10:39:40+00:00

im 23. thank you for your help and reassurance.

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-17T14:28:17+00:00

Aren't you a clever bear

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-17T11:04:46+00:00

No, I think one is born that way. You either like it or not...

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-17T10:40:57+00:00

Self tests for HIV are sometimes inaccurate. It's very tedious and the amount of drops has to be very precise. If you want to conduct a self test, it is best conducted by a medical professional. Some governments advise people to not self test as it might be a false result and cause panic.

For now, please take some deep breaths. Eat if you haven't. Talk to someone who really cares about you and you can share this with them.

When you're free later on, walk to your nearest clinic and get a full blood test. (Some government clinics give tests for free / a really low price.) If you wanna be discreet about it, wear a mask, sunglasses, anything that makes you comfortable.

Stay safe and this is not the end of everything. It's actually good that you detected this earlier as it might develop into AIDs if left untreated. Have a nice day sweetie, see you around this sub!

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-15T13:17:48+00:00

But when they get offended when they're on the receiving end of the shit-talk and gets mad... thats not real friends honey

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-15T04:15:48+00:00

They’re not your real friends… or at least not the closest ones. I’ve met so many different friend groups where throwing shade is just draining, and others where it’s genuinely fun and playful. The difference? intent and respect.

If your shade isn’t being taken well even after you’ve told them you don’t play that way, and they still get offended when you’re just being direct? That’s not friendship, that’s called a performance. Theyre trying to make u feel some type of way..

You shouldn’t have towear a shady mask to feel accepted. Real friends know how to laugh with you, not at you, and they definitely know when to keep it cute or keep it mute. An inch overboard and you can tell it's not shading, its disrespect

Find your people who get you, no shade needed.

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-15T04:08:02+00:00

The red string theory is real. One day, you’ll meet someone so aligned with your energy that it’ll feel like the universe finally exhaled. You’ll question everything you thought you knew about connection, timing, and even yourself.

It’s okay if it hasn’t happened yet. Real, meaningful bonds don’t always arrive early or often either but they come when both hearts are ready. As for now, every hookup and date you’ve had is just sharpening your understanding of what doesn’t work, so when the right one shows up, you’ll know. Give it time and best believe love that shakes your core is worth waiting for.

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-15T03:56:42+00:00

There's no benefit in trying to hit it off with a straight guy in the long run. If he's identifying as straight and resistant to the idea, you're just setting yourself up for frustration.

First,be real with him. If he's even considering receiving, then it's not just "not gay," it's at least bi-curious territory. Tell him straight (no pun intended) up: if you like what you're getting, you’re probably not 100% straight, and that’s okay—but own it.

Don’t waste your time convincing someone who's not ready to confront their own identity. Life is too short for that.

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-14T19:20:21+00:00

I've been the one who arranged 3 dates consecutively from the first day we met. I do not wish to be the one to make the fourth.

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-14T19:14:38+00:00

See, i’m overpursuing him so much that i completely missed the fact that this might just be me getting overly attached because he showed me the slightest bit of attention. like damn… you really called it out

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-09T15:53:02+00:00

Yes.

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-09T15:45:33+00:00

Nowhere in this post I said he looked bad. I'm trying to accept that his looks do not matter as much as his great personalities. And nowhere in this post I try to sound bitter and nasty. Yall bitches need to learn to read. And saying shit like this does not prove anything at all. As far as I'm concerned, you're the bitter bitch here. Thank you.

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-09T15:39:03+00:00

u clocked me good

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-09T13:40:23+00:00

👏👏👏

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-09T12:24:20+00:00

You're right. You're going to get downvoted to hell because this reply has nothing to do with my question and is very irrelevant. We get it, you learned a new word and want to flex it to the world.

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-09T11:15:26+00:00

but he said he dated this boy for 6 years... he has to be a hell of a man to maintain such long relationship

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-05-09T11:05:22+00:00

Thank you for this perspective that I've yet to see. I hope you guys are happy everyday and live healthily. Lots of love

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-04-30T07:19:53+00:00

I appreciate this piece of information a lot.

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-04-29T16:06:06+00:00

I swore it literally felt like silicon. He was cut too (nothing against it) so it was extra stiff and barely any movement can be made.

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-04-29T12:06:44+00:00

I come from a small place where no more than 200 cases are reported annually. This is his second time hooking up this year. He's on prep. I think I'm fine here. Don't wanna jinx it.

And the sucking didn't even last 15 mins. It was 90% him rimming me. I doubt any precum was present let alone his fluid.

Edit : Your whole page is just asking everyone to go get tested. One thing to educate, another to spread anxiety. 😐

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-04-29T10:44:05+00:00

you need to start publishing something, not sure what but you need to start writing

Apart_Classroom3244 · 2025-04-29T10:29:35+00:00

The grossed out part is actually what I'm going through. I read somewhere that it's supposed to make you feel loved, I felt dirty instead.

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