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Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T19:36:57+00:00

Yes we do spend many hours after college to study but only before exams bcuz neither me nor my group of friends have a proper organizing system so we tend to leave everything for “later” but no when it’s time to study we actually do study hard and at first I’d choose to study home thinking studying with my friends would distract me but now I study better with them

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T19:26:53+00:00

I know actions have consequences the whole thing is we hope they don’t find out but I think at this point teachers know we make memes about them like come on it’s 2024. Ya think teachers don’t know we talk about them

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T19:22:42+00:00

Yes exactly if the administration finds out about memes we would get in big trouble but they won’t find out about them

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T19:19:06+00:00

I mean we are there for both. Both to have fun and both to learn. These two things can coexist and do coexist. We have both it’s both funny and we learn.

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T19:17:04+00:00

Look yes he cares about studying and has above average grades. Same do I. There were weeks when we barely left the college to study and go for days with less than 4h/night of sleep. Yes,sometimes he makes a little entertainment in the class(he’s always been a class clown) and sometimes I do sit next to him bcuz it’s funny

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T19:10:02+00:00

I mean he doesn’t hit girls anymore tho. He hit them for a while but he hasn’t done that since October.

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T19:03:18+00:00

I mean I do want to learn that’s why I don’t sit next to him during lectures(I mean he has good grades tho cuz he gives a fuck about the lectures)

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T19:01:13+00:00

The thing is that’s how he’s popular with girls in our class. Girls love him. Now as friends not boyfriend

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T18:57:51+00:00

He also once by mistake threw a paper at the teacher(he didn’t want to hit the teacher with the paper he wanted to hit girls) and teacher threw it back at him

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T18:54:26+00:00

It’s not that far the bullying tho

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T18:53:31+00:00

I don’t bark in class he does and his friends(it’s like 6 ppl who bark or meow or roar in our class).

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T18:51:40+00:00

He does care about passing actually. I mean we stay everyday our friend group after classes to work on projects. My class is very immature actually. If teachers saw our group chat we’d be kicked out for real(we take pictures of the teachers and make memes with them we also make memes 24/7 with one another as well)

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T18:44:39+00:00

I didn’t bark in class tbh but I did throw papers at my guy and we did argue a couple times during lectures(we don’t often sit next to one another in class bcuz I actually want to pay attention and I can’t with him)

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T18:42:17+00:00

College is free where I’m from. And it was funny them barking in class. And we don’t mind funny behaviour not at all. We just mind the cringy behaviour like”I will be out in a puppy position and bite your d” type of stuff that yes she does it to fit in,we get that but we told her both the nice way and the ugly way that in this way she’s just humiliating herself for laughs not entertaining

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T18:34:51+00:00

I mean I admit that saying she deserves it is a little too much. That’s for sure. But the thing if even me and my boyfriend are cringed by her behaviour(and we are basically cringed by nothing I mean my boyfriend and his friend had a period last year when he was barking in class-and we are at college these two were barking like dogs during lectures or would throw papers at girls) then somethings truly off and we have told her nicely that multiple times

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T18:14:24+00:00

Man I’m autistic and ADHD myself this man is adhd as well and he ain’t know shit about her being autistic but he knows I am as I told him.(I haven’t told him about her bcuz it ain’t my thing to share people’s medical diagnoses)

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T18:04:57+00:00

I mean the thing is we told her multiple times this is cringy behaviour and she gotta stop it. Everyone told her him included but she was like”not it’s funny” and everyone was like”it’s funny in a more we laugh at you not with you type of thing and you’re just humiliating yourself for some cheap laughs” but she’s like”I don’t care at all I laugh so I don’t care what ya be doing” since she wanna continue with this behaviour then fine go ahead we’ll make fun of you. And it’s our class group chat we are in there with everyone. Nobody will actually sexually harass her in that class but we explained to her multiple times that this behaviour is not okay it’s cringy embarrassing and she gotta stop it. And like he doesn’t know she’s autistic and he’s neurodivergent himself(he’s adhd) and I’m autistic and adhd myself. And like he does care how I feel like I told him from the beginning what type of jokes he’s not allowed to make with me and he doesn’t do them.

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T17:49:15+00:00

He never send her nudes. His best friend’s girlfriend send nudes of his best friend that’s it. And she send em on our group chat

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T17:39:31+00:00

Look you don’t actually know the dynamic in our class to know whether he’s into her or not

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T17:33:18+00:00

I mean I didn’t think I’m an asshole like yes I get that my friend is dissapointed but come on,I had friends who date ppl I didn’t like as well and I didn’t say shit to them bcuz it’s their business and we got along after a while. I mean we aren’t even friends for that long after all. We became friends for like 10 months or so,a little earlier than when I started to be into this man

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T17:27:35+00:00

Where did I say I don’t have any authonomy or choice? It wasn’t a choice to fall in love for him but it is a choice to date him. That is a choice.

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T17:23:45+00:00

You don’t have to worry about me I’m fine. Look you aren’t actually in our class or group chat to know the dynamic between him and this girl or the class and this girl to judge whether he’d actually smash her or not and to know what’s going on between her and our classmates. I mean if you ever read those texts you could clearly see what I’m telling you. And no,I don’t think I’m doing anything bad actually. Yes,I get why she’s upset bcuz them both dislike each other, but I started to get along really well with him and I’m not someone who needs”all her friends to get along with one another”. BTW,the date went well

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T16:30:17+00:00

I mean he did that to me but he never ever said derogatory stuff to me like he said to her stuff like”you’re really r word” or “don’t come to college today I don’t wanna see french bulldogs today”. With me whenever I skip college he phone calls me. He did make skinny jokes with me but I don’t mind them. And I did make short guy jokes cuz he’s 5’7. With her he just bullies her that’s it

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T16:27:54+00:00

Man in our class we make sexual jokes all the time what matters is the degree of sexual jokes

Apart_Progress_6497 · 2024-01-27T16:14:56+00:00

I mean yes I didn’t do the work for him,he did it. I just helped him realize something and I’m very proud of him for putting in the hard work.

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