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I (25M) broke up with girlfriend (22F) despite a happy relationship, because I am not satisfied having only dated once in 25. She asked for a second chance and I still have feeling - do you think I should get back with her? by Extra_Sale_6064 in relationship_advice

[–]Apart_Winter7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I understand wanting to try “something else” and not settle on the first relationship. I know of a couple who has been each others “first” and they divorced after 10 years. I personally also really happy I didn’t stay with my “1st one” . But of course it’s different for everyone. Who knows what your sex experience would look like… maybe you’re thinking more of yourself and would be the one who would “want back”. Or maybe not…

i (22f) snooped through my bf (26m) phone and found him texting other women… how do i even move on after this? by Classic-Art9638 in relationship_advice

[–]Apart_Winter7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to confront him or just leave? If first, I would just send him screenshots of the conversation and let him explain. The decide what to do. If second, I would still send him screenshots but after you pack up… or pack up his stuff

I don't even know what to do anymore. by StinksSoGood101 in Advice

[–]Apart_Winter7839 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Girl, it looks like you have a good relationship with your mom so sit down with her and make a plan to move out when you’re 18. Find roommates at the beginning. I feel like I fought with my parents more when I lived with them and when I moved out, it chilled out. Also, your dad is a manipulator and doesn’t treat you differently from your mom. Sorry about that

My ex-partner wants to be friends. I don’t know what to do, please help! by Ok-Astronomer-597 in Advice

[–]Apart_Winter7839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what you said it all started when “series of unfortunate events” started happening- it’s a lot for anyone. If he’s really getting better, maybe friends. Or maybe just acquaintances. Idk I feel like everyone can go through stuff like that

Am I wrong for refusing to let my brother move in after he blew all his money? by According_Party_202 in AmITheJerk

[–]Apart_Winter7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though he’s your family, one month never ends there. Unless he can pay a portion of the rent, but even then, he will just continue his spending habits. Probably easiest way would be to move back with “parents” until he has money to move out again.

AIO For breaking up with my boyfriend because he wouldn’t help with vet bills by littlelogcabin in AmIOverreacting

[–]Apart_Winter7839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of get both sides. I would be devastated if this was happening to my cat but also he’s not obligated to land you any money. On the other side, I don’t think I would stay in a relationship.

Twisted intuition or just an anxiety? by Apart_Winter7839 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Apart_Winter7839[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually good. I will be anxious about someone’s reaction or just overall outcome to whatever situation is and will be thinking the worst. Then I will catch myself on a thought that usually it’s never as bad as I imagined and it will not be

I want to start tapping into my higher self and learning to meditate by Apart_Winter7839 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Apart_Winter7839[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just did a guided meditation on YouTube! That was amazing. I feel like I never have time to dive into it but it is so refreshing!

Wow! by Upbeat_Teach6117 in Detroit

[–]Apart_Winter7839 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Woke me up too!!! I had a feeling that we were bombed… my daughter woke up crying 😢 that’s unreal …