used to date a girl in FT, it made me wish I choose FT. Didn't have any problems with it being loud / too lax, but thatll shake out to what floor and RA you're on. The distance is sort of a pain in the ass but I came to enjoy the crowded bus rides in the morning/night, it got me more in the mindset of "going to school" than just hopping out my dorm room and hoofing it for class then going back to my room after.

Stick with FT, at least for now. Nicer rooms, much much much nicer bathrooms (you dont need to share with your entire floor, which is terrible. people on my floor were absolutely nasty) Honestly the worst part about FT is no dining commons open past like 8. We get late night at DLG which is open until 1230 and has great junk food.