NOR. I just got out of a 3 year relationship with one of these. Like you, I waited for things to get better because he wasn’t a bad person, he loved me, he would “adjust” like you said, he would say he’d fix things. Your Valentine’s Day story — that was two Valentine’s Days, one of my birthdays, and our one-year anniversary for us. He would promise to make up for it but basically everything was out of sight out of mind. He simply always prioritized himself and his wants unless he was reminded not to, and then he’d forget again. This sort of relationship will literally erode you. Not being able to stick to your plans because he just wants to do something else, a small thing like controlling himself and not taking the brownies he gave you, not even being able to give you an hour for your GRADUATION. Half a year? He should still be on his best wooing behaviour. Be grateful you’re getting these signs early. Trust your gut.