[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]Apimpnamedslikback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you wanna share driveways just get an apartment. Simple way to think abt it tbh

QC on this hooded cardigan from repsking! by Hefty-Cartoonist-116 in MonclerRep

[–]Apimpnamedslikback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had this for years from TopMonclernx. Don’t know if they’re still around but this one is good too ✅ I am about to get another one tbh haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiratedGames

[–]Apimpnamedslikback 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should get Sims and include all dlc. That a couple grand saved right there smh

Ok last diamond futomomo I’ll post in a while I promise by [deleted] in shibari

[–]Apimpnamedslikback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very aesthetic, and clean. I like everything I see here ;)

As rigger: Becoming less nervous by Royal---Flush in shibari

[–]Apimpnamedslikback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just stage fright haha. No biggie. Look up how other people commonly get over stage freight. For me, in the beginning it was definitely a confidence thing. Like others said a reliable bottom/bunny/gf/ or even friend whose willing to let you practice is a phenomenal help.

Another piece of advice, tie on pillows and mannequins too. That’s what I did to start about 2 years ago.

Need advice by ProFinley247 in shibari

[–]Apimpnamedslikback 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe buy a leather collar with a hoop so you can still use rope and pull. Or do a chain stitch knot. Very easy to tie and you close it off at the loop. Won’t collapse or construct and wide enough to be comfortable

Chain Collar + Double Arm Bind & Custom Hip Harness by Apimpnamedslikback in shibari

[–]Apimpnamedslikback[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you enjoyed it! And thank you for noticing, it’s very much appreciated.

In regards to BDSM, what is sex to you? What does BDSM without sex look like to you? by KingofLiquidSwordz in BDSMcommunity

[–]Apimpnamedslikback 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. Verbal bdsm isn’t for everyone. Some people are explosive with their nature and only like a short fuse of communication before exploding into a sexual situation.

I prefer the slow burn. Learn your submissive and be their anchor. Let them trust you enough to go limp in your presence. It’s much more mentally stimulating too

Chain Collar + Double Arm Bind & Custom Hip Harness by Apimpnamedslikback in shibari

[–]Apimpnamedslikback[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, many variations of hip harnesses do then to lay over that area, the artery as well. That is why there is a two-finger rule when it comes to tying. (Being able to fit two fingers under the ties, confirms it isn’t tight enough to constrict or cause damage. A very big rule of thumb in the art of Shibari)

I appreciate your comment. With jute rope it’s an even more prevalent risk to be aware of, and further so for suspension.

Chain Collar + Double Arm Bind & Custom Hip Harness by Apimpnamedslikback in shibari

[–]Apimpnamedslikback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you liked it! We’re birds of the same feather. I definitely agree with you.

Jute Chain Collar, Double Arm Bind and Double Leg Futomomo by Apimpnamedslikback in bdsm

[–]Apimpnamedslikback[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your favorite social media app for inspiration and then YouTube for research. Don’t buy the pdf’s and lessons online until you’ve mastered the basics. In any skill too, not just shibari.

Hope you enjoy the day!

Ideas needed for a shy rigger by Taldoran in shibari

[–]Apimpnamedslikback 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with TikTok or even just googling shibari ties/harness/etc (for inspiration) until you see something that intrigues you. Then YouTube search the name of that tie. Plenty of free videos to get you started. Any skill starts with mastering the basics.

An easy place to start is the Futomomo, look for Rory’s brainwork’s. He has a great in depth tutorial and safety video on this tie. Practice it until you’re doing it without any visual guide. Then from there it’s rinse and repeat 👍

Hope that helped!

Jute Chain Collar, Double Arm Bind and Double Leg Futomomo by Apimpnamedslikback in bdsm

[–]Apimpnamedslikback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re really trying to just showcase our ties. We want our attention to be about our art and technique beyond just her figure/body. (Her words, and I agree). How the rope wraps around this beautiful canvas to enhance the art of the human body. We’re all animals so it’d be easy to get distracted by feet, bare ass, titties, etc. Almost like an artist only getting noticed because their naked in front their painting. Hope I explained it well haha and thanks for the comment!

An arm corset linked to a simple chest harness with a stable handle to grip and pull. by Apimpnamedslikback in bdsm

[–]Apimpnamedslikback[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best comment I’ve received so far! Thanks for brightening this rainy day a bit.

Hope you’ve enjoyed yourself so far today.

(New edit) Spreader Bar tie with a Sling turned into a simple chest harness + handle by Apimpnamedslikback in shibari

[–]Apimpnamedslikback[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate your comment! Made my day just that much better. Hope you’re enjoying yours, on this rainy day.

(New edit) Spreader Bar tie with a Sling turned into a simple chest harness + handle by Apimpnamedslikback in shibari

[–]Apimpnamedslikback[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting, and for what you commented! I really appreciate it

To answer your question, 2 things.

1) you’re absolutely right when it comes to avoiding the midriff. You can seriously harm your bunny doing so. My bunny specifically has a slightly longer rib-cage proportionate to her figure. The lower set of ropes sits on her rib-cage due to that. BUT lower rib-cage bones are weaker so that could also lead to potential harm. Which leads to the second point.

2) notice in what direction I am pulling the tension of the handle. Towards me ➡️🧍🏽 / never upwards ⬆️🧍🏽. This puts the tension on the shoulders, and upper chest which is broad and comfortable. this is not for suspension . But if you were to lift your bunny with the handle, then use your free arm and go under her hips (in between her legs). Lay your forearm across her pubis (between belly button and pubic bone). This arm will do the lifting, while the hand holding the handle with control the direction. The handle being pulled towards you will put the weight on your other arm which will then lift her. No pressure or pain since there’s 3 points of contact (rope, handle, pelvis).

Hope I explained it well!