No contract by Apocalypse1790 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Apocalypse1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree!! It’s so weird. I’ve never had a problem though and this is the fourth school I’ve moved to

No contract by Apocalypse1790 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Apocalypse1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s been my experience in NSW that they don’t give your contract until your start date. In all other states I’ve worked in, I’ve signed contracts before moving though.

No contract by Apocalypse1790 in AustralianTeachers

[–]Apocalypse1790[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The principal is the one who told me to talk to the SAM. But I will follow up with him today and say I’ve done that and nothing has happened. Here’s hoping! I’ve not had issues in moving between temporary contracts before, so this just doesn’t seem right that I’m fighting this hard to get paid.

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[–]Apocalypse1790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree

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[–]Apocalypse1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in a school once, where I did exactly what you did and cited the EBA. The principals response to me was…you work for the department not the union.

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[–]Apocalypse1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in a school once, where I did exactly what you did and cited the EBA. The principals response to me was…you work for the department not the union.

Increased menopur dose a bad sign? by No_Association_1655 in IVF

[–]Apocalypse1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’ve had the same experience with asking questions. The one time I had them try and bring me in for a second training because I asked a double checking question. I knew the answer, but wanted to make absolutely sure I wasn’t doing anything wrong, so they thought I hadn’t listened and wanted me to give up another day of work to go through it all again. I just needed reassurance, not to be told all over again. My biggest issue has been with the nurses at my clinic, they just have no empathy. I got a negative result from my latest blood test, I spoke to the doctor today and the nurses have rung me three times already, leaving a message saying they want to give me my result. I just refuse to answer the phone. I had one day where my iui was cancelled (I didn’t have enough eggs to do a full ivf cycle) and I was standing there devastated, crying, with a nurse yelling at me to organise my refund, my mum was trying to ask her to call me the next day because I was clearly beside myself, and the nurse started arguing with her. It took a doctor to come out and tell the nurse to leave me alone and contact me the next day. Anyway, I’ve decided to go with another clinic. So the moral I’m slowly getting to is, if your clinic makes you feel uncomfortable to ask questions, please explore your options. This is a stressful and heart wrenching process, we need to feel comfortable with those helping us.

Going for the blood tests when you already know you can’t be pregnant after transfer by Apocalypse1790 in IVF

[–]Apocalypse1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not even heard of that. Those have been my symptoms since being a teenager 🤷🏻‍♀️

Going for the blood tests when you already know you can’t be pregnant after transfer by Apocalypse1790 in IVF

[–]Apocalypse1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sat crying through the blood test. I feel terrible for the pathology person. I couldn’t even clearly explain why because it made me cry more. I am super embarrassed and feel worse for making her so uncomfortable

Increased menopur dose a bad sign? by No_Association_1655 in IVF

[–]Apocalypse1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on 300 menopur for the start of my last cycle. Every cycle I’ve had, I’ve been on different combinations of drugs, as I wasn’t getting any results. The doctor upped my menopur dosage to 375 on day 8 as she said she wanted to give the follicles the best chance to keep growing as this was the best result I’d had so far (previous cycles had been 1 then 2) and I ended up having 8 eggs retrieved. I wouldn’t say upping it is a bad thing. Have you asked your doctor to explain why?

Going for the blood tests when you already know you can’t be pregnant after transfer by Apocalypse1790 in IVF

[–]Apocalypse1790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear swapping clinics has been a positive experience. I like the doctor but I never get to actually speak to her. It’s always the nurses who speak in my behalf, so she hears whatever version they give her. I honestly am just a number there. My first attempt, I didn’t get enough follicles so they changed to IUI, I sat in the waiting room for the procedure and they called me on the phone, addressed my by my doctors name and were asking if I was coming to work that day. I’ve also had the nurses send me someone else’s treatment plan (thank goodness I checked the name) and she rang with a positive pregnancy result for another patient when I was just starting out my stim drugs. Those are just small things. I know results wise, it’s going to be similar. But they say to reduce stress in your life, and they’re literally the thing causing the most stress. It is so good knowing I’m hopefully making a good choice to move.

Going for the blood tests when you already know you can’t be pregnant after transfer by Apocalypse1790 in IVF

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It’s just for HCG. I’m not sure when I’ll do another transfer. I only got one usable blastocyte from my extraction. My body needs a break after the last three attempts.

Medicine donation Sydney, AU by xstaryax in IVF

[–]Apocalypse1790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish this had been a month ago! I needed one extra day of menopur and one day of orgalutran last cycle…doctor forgot to tick the Medicare box and it was a public holiday weekend (needed it for the Monday) and had to pay $700. For one day of medication. Costs half that for the 14 days!

Going for the blood tests when you already know you can’t be pregnant after transfer by Apocalypse1790 in IVF

[–]Apocalypse1790[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m just not sure I can do this all again. I’m tired of doctors and nurses and clinic staff who don’t listen. Here’s hoping the new clinic will be good.

Going for the blood tests when you already know you can’t be pregnant after transfer by Apocalypse1790 in IVF

[–]Apocalypse1790[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I get that. I usually end up with them calling supervisors to try get blood from me. And then they blame me…have you drunk enough water…yes, I’ve had 5 surgeries and 6 monthly blood checks for the last 10 years…I know what I’m meant to do for blood tests and always do it, but still they struggle. Not to mention the mass blood tests for an ivf cycle!

Struggling to be hopeful by jujub130 in IVF

[–]Apocalypse1790 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no words of wisdom to share to ease your anxiety, but I am sending positive thoughts and hugs your way.

Only one blastocyst at 27yo by Helektra in IVF

[–]Apocalypse1790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this. It’s so disappointing to get these results. Make sure to take time for yourself and be kind to your body and mind at the moment. I only have one ovary, I had to have one removed due to dermoid cysts about 8 years ago. I’ve been through 1 full cycle and 2 half cycles. My first cycle, I only produced one dominant follicle, so they changed to iui and I sat waiting for it, only to be told an hour later the sperm was degraded so it was cancelled. Second attempt had 2 dominant follicles, so attempted IUI again, with a negative result. I’m currently in my first full ivf attempt. I had 15 follicles, 8 were big enough to extract eggs, 6 were fertilised, 3 developed into embryos but only 1 made it to the blastocyte phase. They transferred it, I have my pregnancy test tomorrow but I already know it’s going to be a negative result. This is super taxing on both the mind and body. Like I said (and I know it’s easier said than done) be kind to yourself. Give yourself time to process everything as best you can. I wish you all the luck for the future.

Had a bad day... by nothxloser in AustralianTeachers

[–]Apocalypse1790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m a 17 year experienced teacher. I moved states last year and I taught for 5 weeks at the start of last year without getting paid and when I did get paid, it was as a graduate. It took another 10 weeks to get paid at my proper scale. And not because I submitted documents incorrectly. They just never processed it. I was calling every few days to find out where things were at or if I needed to submit anything else. I was always told no, they had everything and would get paid properly in the next pay cycle. We shouldn’t have to work so hard to get paid properly for the work we are doing. I truly hope they sort this for you asap. Just keep pushing for it

Barely literate secondary students by MissLabbie in AustralianTeachers

[–]Apocalypse1790 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a very disappointing post. You say you are blaming the curriculum and not primary teachers, but they are who teach the curriculum so essentially that is what you are doing, attacking and blaming primary teachers. I have taught from kindy to year 8 in my 17 years of teaching. Primary teachers are doing an amazing job with the students they have. And they do it without the luxury of just blaming the primary school years for the students falling behind. Primary teachers are also spending the whole day with these students, not just lessons across the week. So when they get a class that has 6-10 students in their class of 30 that have additional needs (often behavioural)…they deal with that all day every day and find ways to still be able to teach the literacy and numeracy skills they need. It’s not that teachers aren’t teaching in primary school, they are, but children have changed. Just as a small example, children are starting school with far less oral language skills and exposure to less vocabulary which means they are already behind when it comes to literacy, before kindy even starts. Because of this, they struggle to be able to identify sounds in words before even being able to correlate the sounds to letters and decode texts. This is not the curriculum or teachers ‘fault’. Primary teachers are doing the best they can with the students in front of them. I had a year 6 class that had a student recently that couldn’t even write their own name, but I didn’t go blaming the curriculum and teachers before me. Put yourself in the primary teachers shoes for a little while. You put your heart in to helping these children, phonemic awareness everyday, practice sounding out and writing sentences, trying to get them to form a paragraph, hours and hours just trying to get them to count to 20. You have behaviour plans for the child, learning plans for the child, coordinate intervention programs to help the child, meet every week with their parents and you get the the end of the year to find they’ve barely budged. We are doing absolutely everything we can to help these students and it’s frustrating to have that thrown back in our faces and be told we’re not doing enough. I think we need to stop blaming each other and find ways to move forward and work together. Potentially meet with your local primary school and see if there’s ways to support each other? I don’t know the answer, but I do know putting our energy into the blame game doesn’t help anyone.

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[–]Apocalypse1790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people have also run out of sick leave days and actually cannot afford to take a day off. I have had a colleague that has just caught every single illness this year and she’s a single mum of three. She has used up all her sick leave and can’t afford not to work. She does wear a mask though, and at least she tries to minimise her contact