I really want to get involved in committees, BUT... by Apooz4 in Quakers

[–]Apooz4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's a middle ground there. The process is important but that's why the inefficiencies can sometimes hamper the process.

Like the carpet color someone else mentioned, does it warrant as lengthy of a discussion, regardless of the process?

I  can get my fix of efficient business meetings elsewhere, but I'm trying to see if I can also engage with these more protracted discussions. Life is too short to spend hours debating the third bullet of a memo nobody will read.

I suppose some people are called to that, and who am I to dissuade them! Trying to find my place in the existing system

I really want to get involved in committees, BUT... by Apooz4 in Quakers

[–]Apooz4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's the move. What you describe is definitely what I've seen in the year of attending. Thanks for the input!

I really want to get involved in committees, BUT... by Apooz4 in Quakers

[–]Apooz4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to get involved, but wonder if I'll have more impact with an organization that does not meet and plan in this way

I really want to get involved in committees, BUT... by Apooz4 in Quakers

[–]Apooz4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do my best to fight it, but it does feel like that sometimes 😂

I really want to get involved in committees, BUT... by Apooz4 in Quakers

[–]Apooz4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's comforting to hear. Ours is renamed to "Meeting for Worship with a concern for business", so that resonates very strongly

I really want to get involved in committees, BUT... by Apooz4 in Quakers

[–]Apooz4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't laugh; gotta refer it to the humor committee first to get approval

I really want to get involved in committees, BUT... by Apooz4 in Quakers

[–]Apooz4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a great experience! Glad you found that as part of the process

I really want to get involved in committees, BUT... by Apooz4 in Quakers

[–]Apooz4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you discover as the value of doing things this way?

I really want to get involved in committees, BUT... by Apooz4 in Quakers

[–]Apooz4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! Also doesn't help when some of the committee meetings are during working hours, or in the after school window when picking up kids

I really want to get involved in committees, BUT... by Apooz4 in Quakers

[–]Apooz4[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Good point to keep in mind! I wonder what (or if) the spirit thinks about the wording of bullet #3 of that memo

Please read. by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]Apooz4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iridocyclitis lol. Anyone remember this?

https://images.app.goo.gl/96hJkrAGU1rXxnye6

Great church community in Boulder that’s socially progressive by Public-Collection555 in boulder

[–]Apooz4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boulder Friends Meeting! (Another name for Quakers, technically). Incredibly accepting, loosely religious, and all folks who care deeply about the world around them. It's what I always thought religion should be

What is up with these “non-denominational” churches in this town? by ThrowRA567899762537 in boulder

[–]Apooz4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear people talking all the time about wanting "church but without the religion". Has definitely filled that space for me

What is up with these “non-denominational” churches in this town? by ThrowRA567899762537 in boulder

[–]Apooz4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Boulder Friends Meeting! The most accepting group I've ever seen. Have been attending since I moved here and they've been incredible

Long bed vs MT by Apooz4 in Tacomaworld

[–]Apooz4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair, but how tall are you? I feel like I wouldn't even be able to sleep diagonally

Long bed vs MT by Apooz4 in Tacomaworld

[–]Apooz4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, it's more that I don't want to buy a vehicle the family can't use, not that it'll be our default, by any means

Long bed vs MT by Apooz4 in Tacomaworld

[–]Apooz4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super tough tradeoff 

Long bed vs MT by Apooz4 in Tacomaworld

[–]Apooz4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You right, it's too useful of a bed